u/backofyrthroat

Posted elsewhere as well, but I'm looking to chat with big brother-type guys (trans or otherwise) interested in bullying and roughing up their weak loser bros. Not interested in roleplay, just want to hear about your sibling incest (or rather, fauxcest) fantasies and share mine in return. I love feeling like big bro's shameful secret and I love knowing that other guys are getting hard listening to me confess all of these gross desires. I'm usually on here somewhat intermittently, so it would be ideal if you were also cool with messaging just kind of whenever we both check Reddit.

Yes: impact play, degradation, wrestling, headlocks, heavy use of the f-slur, and humiliation in general. Much, much more, but willing to discuss in DMs for the sake of brevity.

Limits: breeding, detrans, scat, raceplay, or any other kind of non-consensual harm outside of a fantasy or scene. Straight guys need not apply--you're not gonna like what I'm bringing to the table here.

Please be 25+!

I posted about this on the sister subreddit as well, but I'm looking to chat with big brother-type guys (trans or otherwise) interested in bullying and roughing up their weak loser bros. Not interested in roleplay, just want to hear about your sibling incest (or rather, fauxcest) fantasies and share mine in return. I love feeling like big bro's shameful secret and I love knowing that other guys are getting hard listening to me confess all of these gross desires. I'm usually on here somewhat intermittently, so it would be ideal if you were also cool with messaging just kind of whenever we both check Reddit.

Yes: impact play, degradation, wrestling, headlocks, heavy use of the f-slur, and humiliation in general. Much, much more, but willing to discuss in DMs for the sake of brevity.

Limits: breeding, detrans, scat, raceplay, or any other kind of non-consensual harm outside of a fantasy or scene. Straight guys need not apply--you're not gonna like what I'm bringing to the table here.

Please be 25+!

Hi! Not sure what flair is appropriate here because this equal parts personal ad and general confession of a current sexual obsession of mine, so I'm just tagging as "I'm a Bunny."

I'm a bisexual trans guy who has always gravitated towards things that are humiliating, physically painful, and psychosexually fraught. I don't feel particularly ashamed about my erotic proclivities, and I would even go as far to say that I actively claim a kind of valorized decadent pervert identity for myself (within reason). I'm also an only child, and this is purely fantasy.

In my idle moments before going to bed, I'll often think about myself as the younger brother to an older brother. The age gap or lack thereof is not important to me here, it's more about the slight asymmetry of power between these two familial positions in general.

In these fantasies, I'm the loser. I'm the default target for my brother's bullying. He wrestles me to the ground as I struggle and groan and calls me homophobic slurs for failing to hide how much I secretly enjoy his tormenting. He puts me in a headlock until I get lightheaded and lets my body limply fall onto the ground after I weakly attempt to tap out. He pounds his fists into my gut whenever he needs a punching bag and jokingly calls me a pussy when I keel over and stifle my tears. But I endure it because I want to impress him. I want him to think I'm man enough to take it. I want him to know that I'm man enough to take it.

And when I'm pawing at my boxers at night thinking about this, I'm usually jerking off to the onus of the shame for breaking the taboo being exclusively on me. Even when my brother is using this playful aggression as a flimsy pretense to touch me and escalate the contact from there, I'm the sick one, I'm the pervert, I'm the pathetic brother-fucking queer who was too weak to stop these desires from developing further. Nobody can know, not because we'll both face consequences, but because everyone will know that I let it happen. I let my brother do all those things to me and I made myself cum to them afterwards. And much of this fantasy revolves around the tension between the statements "I can't believe you're actually letting me do this to you!" and "Why are you freaking out? It's normal for brothers to be this close."

Ultimately, I'm posting this here because I've been struggling to find this sort of thing out in the wild in pornographic art or writing. It seems that much of the brotherfucking content online (especially involving trans guys!) usually involves some sort of infantilization angle or uses the brother figure as a substitute for a form of paternal authority (which is fine, but it's not what I'm looking for). If other guys with similar fantasies want to reach out, that's awesome, but I just wanted to word-vomit this onto a post regardless (and I'm not really sure if other subs would allow this thing lol). Thanks for reading if you made it this far!

Limits: Detransition, breeding, misgendering, etc. Also scat, raceplay, underage, and any other kind of non-consensual harm outside of a fantasy or scene.

Longtime lurker and first-time poster here, not sure if this kind of thing is ideal for this subreddit in particular, but it's relevant to my experience as a trans guy who fucks other guys and I feel like it might be of interest to trans guys who fuck other guys and may be similar to the type of person I am.

Like some of you, I am someone who primarily uses Reddit to jerk off to other men and have other men jerk off to me in turn. And yesterday, I was feeling particularly exhibitionistic and took some lewds of myself that I was especially proud of--I looked both like the kind of guy I would fuck and the kind of guy I'd been dreaming about becoming for years. I initially posted on some smaller bear-ish tguy-specific subs and received a lot of lovely comments and messages on top of the perverse gratification of knowing that other guys were looking at me, which was the primary motivation for that in the first place.

I was feeling pretty bold and did something I had never done before, which was showing off in an ostensibly trans-inclusive subreddit for bears in general. I wasn't really expecting much attention and that didn't really matter to me as much as the act of posting itself did anyways. I immediately got a few comments and messages (mostly positive) and noticed even more when I returned 10 minutes later, including some from guys who were clearly pissed off that they were subjected to the sight of transsexual cock. I didn't think what I posted was particularly provocative aside from me being trans, but after I saw the pushback I immediately realized that I had inadvertently created something that was pretty inflammatory for a tguy to post in a space like that.

Nothing in my title suggested I was transsexual--the only text on that post was something along the lines of "sure bro, i'll show you mine too." I didn't see any kind of flair that would indicate my transness but I figured that was pretty immaterial to the situation at hand anyways. The body of the post was two photographs of myself in a jock and a ribbed Tom of Finland tank top (lol) and you had to click onto the next slide to see me pulling my underwear to the side to expose my tdick. After a few comments expressing a mixture of anger and disappointment, in addition to a very visible phenomenon of every positive comment being downvoted into the negatives, I realized that it was possible that I effectively cis-baited some of these guys on accident. And it made me feel like a fucking stud.

Outside of my situation, I've always found it a little disheartening to see other guys like me in places like that feeling the need to soften the blow of their transsexuality with some kind of apologetic warning or qualification. I very obviously don't feel like this is a failing on their part--it's hard to internalize that kind of confidence even when you're several years into your transition. But I think if you are a fat hairy gay guy in your late 30s or whatever, you shouldn't feel the need to call yourself a cub if you would prefer to call yourself a bear. You're a bear posting on a bear subreddit among a billion cis guys who look just like you and are calling themselves bears with no reservations whatsoever. You are a man and a beast with hair on your fucking back and if some cis guys take issue with that, they're probably not going to yield any sort of erotic encounter of value to you anyways.

Nothing negative that these guys have to say is going to be novel to you. And if you're like me, no rebuke will ever be as psychologically wounding as being post-top surgery and 5 months on T and posting yourself on ftmspunished in your Folsom finest and getting a million messages from marginally bisexual chasers who see you as a le epic flat-chested tomboy. If you don't feel any desire to show yourself off, that is totally fine. Of course I don't believe that there should be any kind of moral or political imperative to categorically represent tguys in these porno spaces--that's not why you're on Reddit. And if you feel so moved as to post and aren't really rocking with the attention you're getting, it's also fine to delete and move on. But you should be able to whip your cock out in places where you are expected to whip your cock out and not feel like you're overstepping some socially-imposed boundary. And you might even be looking in the mirror and Patrick Bateman-style kissing your biceps about it when you realize you're more capable of taking the heat than you previously assumed. Because that's kind of how I felt.

You have nothing to lose but your chains. So put on the Nasty Pig jock and start woofing, f*ggot.