u/beansinthemail_

My default personality in public is pretty serious. I've got an rbf, I dress punk, am muscular and am 5'8". I'd love to be approached by submissive men that knew what they want-- instead I am almost always dealing with guys that come up to me with some sort of bravado. Like they're trying to get a reaction through teasing?? I'd say many times it's all in good fun. But they don't know what to do when I actually turn my full attention on them. It's like deer in headlights.

I feel like I can see through them-- they're curious but they don't know how to say what they want. Does anyone else experience this?? Seems like some guys don't want to acknowledge how submissive they are, and they'd rather goad us into interacting with them.