u/bearballoon45

As the title. One of my relationships has naturally progressed and we have a few different dynamics we've spent time in. Particularly I'm trying to decide how I want to manage space between D/s with a very aggressive/sadistic structure and DDlg time. Sometimes it's as simple as tone setting based on what I want, or reading my sub's needs. But I still find it jarring to switch contexts across days sometimes.

In particular I think we've been settling into DDlg quite a bit lately which is comfortable. I enjoy it. But I've got a craving to drag us back to something more structured and sadistic and I'd welcome some tips other than just discuss what you want. Ways to scene set in our heads or balance the spaces.