How should I present myself?
So I'm very new to the sugaring lifestyle and I'm mentally putting together a profile. I'm 19F and I would say that I have a more "alternative" look i guess (septum ring, long/fake nails, sorta grungy/laid back style) and I'm not sure that would be super attractive to an SD. I'm also 11 months post chemo so my hair is short and curly + I havent had it cut since i started chemo but i have a haircut in a few days and I'm going for a sort of bixie cut (bob/pixie combo). I can flip up the septum so it's not visible, I can swap out the long nails for shorter frenchies, and I can wear my wig for a more normal-ish look.
I'm pretty much just wondering what you guys think the best route would be, I genuinely dont mind switching up my look but I honestly have no clue what SDs are looking for. I feel like they would prefer someone very feminine, I am already very feminine but not always "long flowy sundress" feminine, most of the time its more "tight revealing tube tops" feminine. I'm sure my aesthetic probably isnt appealing to the majority of SDs. Right now I'm leaning towards representing both sides of myself, a few pictures of my natural style and some from my trips to the MET and the ballet where I look more classically feminine.
I guess my biggest concern is that I don't want to misrepresent myself or give the wrong impression, at the risk of sounding conceited, I do genuinely think I'm pretty in a very feminine way, and I'm pretty low maintenance. I've always been a very kind and devoted person, I'm generally soft spoken and gentle but I worry that my typical aesthetic doesn't give that impression. So yeah if anyone has any thoughts pls share!