u/behaveslikejello

I’m currently in a monogamous relationship with a woman who has expressed interest in exploring kink with me and being submissive in particular. Our vanilla sex life is spectacular, so it’s not about spicing it up. My last relationship (with a man, 8yrs) evolved into a gentle femdom kink dynamic and it’s been something I’ve been missing, so I’m pretty excited (and honored) to go on this journey with her.

I’m trying to coax out what that means to her - how does she want to feel in that submissive space, what is a hard boundary, bdsm limits, etc. but I’m not sure she knows what she wants or maybe doesn’t know how to articulate.

There’s a lot of girl on boy content in here, and I love it, but I don’t see any posts from wlw gentle femdoms. Am I the only one? I would love to connect and share experiences.

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u/behaveslikejello — 19 days ago