Hey you, I'm 40, 6'3", 185lb, Italian-born (hopefully my accent doesn't bother u), and life has taken me through Italy, Ireland, the US, and the UK before landing here in the Bay Area.
I have had experience with age-gap connections and understand what makes them work — honesty, patience, clear communication, and real respect. No games, no pressure… just good energy.. and if you are a sub (impact, cnc, feral) it's definitively a plus but not a requirement.
I'm clean, healthy, and test regularly — I take that side of things seriously and expect the same in return. It's part of the respect thing for me. I'm into 🍄 occasionally and 🎸 — no pressure either way, just open-minded and happy to share good vibes.
I'm easygoing, a great listener, and I enjoy the slow getting-to-know-you part just as much as everything else — good conversation, shared curiosity, stories about travel, food, wine, whatever makes you light up when you talk about it.
Not looking for anything specific. Open to chatting, meeting for a coffee (I'm picky about it, I won't apologize), a walk somewhere nice, and seeing where things go naturally.
So… if a tall, charming Italian with a few passport stamps and a soft spot for clever, curious women sounds like your kind of trouble, say hi. I'd love to hear from you