Help me find my perfect toy. Thinking possibly an eroscillator?
After spending way too much money over the years, and trying so many types/models, I think I’ve zeroed in on what finally works. However, whenever I find something, it’s hard to duplicate and they end up dying before I find a good replacement. In the age of rechargeable vs battery operated, it’s getting worse and I’ll explain.
I like to take my time. I do not want to orgasm super quick. Based on this, rechargeable suck for me due to 2 reasons: either they die before I am ready or the biggest turn off to me is, they get warm/hot. Due to these reasons, I tend to go for battery operated which are cheaper and getting harder to find. I have a pretty high sex drive so I use my toys probably every day.
I was looking at the eroscillator. It seems perfect for all my likes/dislikes. So here is my list and if it seems like it’s a good fit, or if there’s anything different to recommend, I’m open to all suggestions.
Likes: the last few I’ve gravitated to, have broader ends and are technically g-spot vibes. They are longer handled so the vibration is farther from my hands so they don’t get numb quickly. The end I place on my clit, is very flat and broad. The one I have now is Cal Exotics and it’s not even on their website anymore. I think it might even be a scoop style? The diameter at the end is about the size of a nickel.
What I’ve tried and disliked: satisfyer 2- I don’t like direct clit action or the sucking, too stimulating and almost painful; pinpoint type-too buzzy, too direct; wands-too strong; rabbits of any type-inside stimulation takes away from clit stimulation; licking, flicking or tapping-wasn’t enough or didn’t feel like much; ones that are part pump/ part vibrator or flicker-I like the idea of the pump but one was so strong it hurt so bad and it didn’t have a release, the other one (pleasures for her) had a couple of good pump and release options but didn’t like the direct stim on my clit; anything that gets too hot; anything that is so strong when I hold it, my hand goes numb. I prefer something a little softer than hard plastic but it doesn’t need to be super bendy or anything. I don’t need it to look a certain way. I don’t care how big or small. I would prefer it to be on the quieter side but not necessary.
As you can see, I feel like I’ve tried so many. I hate when I go into a store and I tell them all of this yet they still try to hand me something I said I hate. The only other new type I haven’t tried is the ones with a biting action. They seem very intriguing to me.
Based on my points, does the eroscillator sound like it would work? I would get the soft finger attachment for sure. I feel like this has everything I want but I don’t want to spend any more if I should just stick to cheap bob-types.
This is long, I apologize. Thank you if you stuck through it!