39, nearly 40, Male seeking... Well tbh I'm not 100% sure what I'm seeking. I've always been fairly submissive in my life and being single has been the pits, but at the same time I don't know if I'm wanting a real life relationship atm. I mean if you happen to be close then yea, for sure I wouldn't be saying no if we click, but I think right now I'm looking more for something online. Give up some control, get ideas for things to do, etc. I have a lot of likes/dislikes and a lot of toys/things to use already. I will also say that I live with some roommates, and only 1 knows about my lifestyle, so discretion is definitely a key. Additionally even though they know about my lifestyle they don't really want to be involved so I doubt they would do something like hold chastity keys until asked for them back or something. IDK
Some random likes:
Anal (Stretching more than fucking)
Chastity
Orgasm Control
Sounding
Some random limits:
Safe/Sane only
Involving others/animals
Permanent marks/modifications
Blood
Scat
On the whole I'd like to think I'm not too difficult to get along with/do things with. I'm very open to trying new things and have a "try anything once" mindset for a lot of things. I also don't think that anything I have limit wise is too out of the normal, don't ask me things you wouldn't do yourself and we'll probably get along just fine and hopefully have some fun times.
I should also note that for availability I do work from home so can definitely chat/do things most of the day, but again discretion due to roomies and obviously if I need to do a work duty first that comes first. I imagine most things will likely need to be done in the later PST times though just due to things.
In the past when I've served online this never was any big issue though as I can always write reports and stuff so am versed in that form of things. Definitely don't mind more real time either though, but we'll just have to see what comes of things.