First day!
So. Been reading this subreddit for awhile now and finally took the plunge. Bought the "starter" set or whatever mentioned in the sticky at the top of this sub. It arrived yesterday, finally had a chance to talk to my wife about it this morning. She was overly enthusiastic for me and asked me what I was waiting for and to go open the box and put one in! Awesome. I knew she'd support me no matter what, but it was tough to find time to talk about it. Anyways. Small one went in with ease (surprisingly). I wanted to step it up, but I've read this sub enough to know that wasn't a good idea yet. Kinda just layed in bed and got used to it for about an hour, was really enjoying it. Then we decided to have sex, and it popped out (I was on top). No big deal, super easy reinsertion on the spot. Then she got on top, and that was considerably easier, until I came - then it was like buns of steel to stay clenched enough to keep it in place. Here we are, about 8 hours later. I'm *kinda* at work, and I was feeling some irritation. I went to the bathroom, popped it out, full wash and dry, relube and back in (definitely tougher standing up than lying on my side). Walked around, everything felt amazing. Sat down again, nope discomfort still there. But I'm pretty sure it's just from the base against my cheeks. Walking around still feels absolutely amazing, I'm in love with this thing already. Anyhoo, not really a question here, just wanted to share my experience on day 1. I'm sure I'll have no problem keeping it in all day today, but I definitely won't sleep with it in tonight. Just seems like too much for first day. If I make a couple days like this, I'll be upsizing very soon (I did buy all 3 sizes they offered). Overall, a very nice first experience thus far and I'm really looking forward to bigger and better things soon! Happy plugging everyone!
Ok, I lied, a question. How long did you wait before going up in size? I don't feel like I should be ready for that. I do bottom with my wifes boy toy maybe 2-3 times a year, but it's been a few months and I don't think that matters. But I'm definitely swallowing this small one up like it's nothing and I'm super anxious to go bigger as soon as I can. I'm kinda guessing as soon as I can overnight a couple times with it with no discomfort that'd be the time, but when was the right time for you? How did you know? If it matters at all, 49M here. Bi. Swingers. But don't really bottom all that much. 5'11 185 lbs. Kinda sorta in shape-ish, lol, but not really. And we own a few businesses so my workday these days is mostly sitting around building crazy spreadsheets as I'm a data nerd now. Have a great weekend!