u/blackeststarling

40 [F4M] Looking for my OA

Time for something new, and exciting. I definitely miss the long term connection, flirty and fun. I like to focus on one.

I have been married close to 18 years. It has that roommate vibe to it. Maybe we can distract each other. Add some fun and laughter to our situations.

You are between 30-45 years old. You can hold a conversation. You are an open book. You are in a similar situation and just want to add to it. I care more about how you are as a person than being specific about a type I am looking for. You are open to voice messages, or at least try. I know calling will be tough because of our schedules. A voice matters to me. You know what you want.

Let's get to know each other. (:

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u/blackeststarling — 9 days ago

I am looking for my pocket boyfriend. I love a distraction. Get to know each other. Banter. Spicy.

Be between 30-45 years old.

I have been married for almost 18 years, roommate vibes.

As for me, tattoos, piercings, black hair. I wouldn't say I am full throttle goth, been there done that when I was younger. I am just me, whatever style that is. I am into hitting the gym, cooking, gardening, yoga. Horror movie addict. Obsessed with birds.

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u/blackeststarling — 16 days ago

Hope you are enjoying your weekend.

I am looking for a pocket boyfriend/long distance relationship. A pleasant distraction.

Bit about me.. married going onto 18ish years. It has that roommate vibe to it.

I enjoy watching horror movies. Anything to do with sfx makeup and creepy masks, I am all for it. I like gardening, cooking, hitting the gym to keep my sanity. Created a pond last summer, this summer plan on going bigger. I hear ponds are addictive lol. Bird obsession. Parrots and birds of prey. I own an African grey parrot as a pet. I can't explain my style, black everything feels right, feminine outfits, piercings, tattoos but I wouldn't say goth or alt 100%. Been there done that when I was much younger. I am just me.

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u/blackeststarling — 21 days ago