I am new to sugaring and currently have two SB’s that I met on SB and I’ve been seeing them both for about 2 months now, I see them both once a week. For both we have a preset day where I see them every week.
Our dates are fine and I have a good time (I assume they do as well) but what bothers me is that there’s no communication in between dates for either of them. The only time they reach out to me is to confirm our date.
They have both had SD’s before, but it’s a first for me, and I’m just curious on if this is normal. I would love to talk to them in between dates, and whenever I attempt to message either of them, the conversations go nowhere because it’s very clear they are not interested in texting. And if I don’t message them outside of confirming our dates, they won’t message me either.
I follow them both on social media and they are very active on there, so it’s hard for me to think they’re just not the texting type especially when I see them do it fairly often on our dates too.
I don’t know if I’m asking/expecting too much or if this normal in SD/SB relationships since it’s not “real dating”. I really wanted the full girlfriend aspect of this lifestyle which is why I jumped into sugaring in the first place compared to escorts. I also would feel extremely embarrassing bringing this up to either of them, and I’m not even sure if it would be fruitful because I want them to message me because they want to, not in fear of me ending the relationship.
Any thoughts and advice would be appreciated