31 [F4M] #Chicago – Curious submissive seeking a respectful connection (similar age, city only)
Hello! I’m a little nervous to post here but here it goes. I am happy and curious submissive woman looking to meet a respectful man around my age in Chicago.
A little bit about me: I enjoy thrifting, going to concerts, running/walking, swimming in Lake Michigan when it’s possible, to name a few things. I also like to try new things. This year I learned cross country skiing and needlepoint. Outside of that, I work a corporate job.
I’m fairly new to both Reddit and BDSM scene, so patience and clear communication is important to me. I would like to meet someone who keeps it safe, respectful and fun for us both. I’m not interested in anything illegal, reckless, overly extreme, or involving blood or bathroom play. I just want to just say consent, health/hygiene, discretion, and healthy boundaries are important too.
A few things too:
- please be in Chicago city only, not looking in the suburbs, sorry!
- looking for someone my age, please (firm on this)
- please don’t reach out if you’re married (separated still counts as married to me)
I am not really sure what else to post here but guess we can chat about that if it goes that far. If you message me, how about you tell me a little about yourself and something new you’ve learned or done so far this year :)