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As I write this, Master is actively trying to out-brat me. But if I brat back, I get swats added! What do I DOOOOO????

Sir is very very nice to me and makes me feel like such a good, tamed brat. Spending time with him is very fun and I always leave our sessions feeling better than I came. I appreciate that I can trust him and that he takes care of me during my sensitive moments.

(He sent me money for tacos so I could go out with my friends and said I have to write a post for my fellow brats that would humiliate me, saying all sorts of sappy things because my style of bratting is constantly teasing him 😋)

Sir handed my ass to me yesterday via an hour long spanking session and now I have NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT!!! How dare my ass be sore today, but not be all the pretty purples and reds? Where is my brat medal of honor? This is an injustice.

Ok, so I’ve been on vacation and collecting lashes for when I get back, which must be some kind of unfair because I’m ON VACATION, but whatever.

I got to 50 (and might I add, I’m a newer inductee to the house of spankings…) and it was finally time to face my punishment last night.

First, he starts “warming up” by just doing a bunch of light swats and not even COUNTING?! I asked him how many it was and he informed me he hadn’t even been counting those because they were warm ups!!!

He gets through 50 on my bottom. “I did it!” I think. Then he pulls out a cane and starts going AGAIN! I ask what gives and he tells me that the 50 was for EACH IMPLEMENT ON EACH BODY PART.

E X C U S E M E ???

After all was said and done, I had suffered approximately 300 LASHINGS.

He claims to have gone easy on me by hitting lightly, but the bruises on my ass claim otherwise.

What am I to DO? How do I show Sir the error in his ways???!!!!??!??!?

Hello my beloved subby friends. So, I have a bit of experience in the kink community, but have never been in a real and healthy dynamic. My long term partner and I recently broke up and it’s been heartbreaking (he was not a kinkster, but tried for me). One of the reasons is because I need a sexual partner who can dominate me. After talking with my therapist, Ive decided that finding someone to play with is a step I’m wanting to take. I’ve reconnected with an old Dom friend of mine and we’re talking about starting a casual, non romantic dynamic. Now comes the hard part.

I have always had trouble finding my limits. My brain disconnects from itself and my body when I try to think about what makes me uncomfortable versus what doesn’t. I also find it incredibly challenging to know how I’ll feel about something before try that thing. After I try a thing that I don’t necessarily love, it’s less of an uncomfortable feeling and more of a “that didn’t turn me on, but I don’t really care.” feeling, which makes it challenging to set boundaries.

How did you start to build your boundaries? How do you know what is ok for you and what will hurt you (not in the fun way)?

This is my first time going to a kink event unowned by Daddy. Extremely painful, but also exciting because I get to explore possibilities a bit more. Anyway, I’ve always just worn something casual sexy and my collar when going to kink events before. Now, I’m not sure what I want to wear to express my kinkiness besides just dressing hot. My collar, while still mine, was a symbol of his ownership of me and it will remain as a memorial for our dynamic, but not something I can wear any longer. Any suggestions on kinky accessories or garments? I like to express my freak with clothing !!!

TL;DR What should I wear that’s kinky, now that I can no longer wear my collar?

Hey guys. Posting in here because I’ve found so much support before. My boyfriend (who I was kind of in a dynamic with before, see other posts for clarification) broke up with me last night. Basically, he said he can’t be with me because when he’s with me, he can only live for me and my happiness and obviously that’s not a way to live.

I am in the most pain I think it is possible to feel. If anyone has felt any pain more than this, I don’t know how they’re still living. I just wanted to see if I could get any advice for how to get through this time.

I feel like I can’t breathe without him. Every moment is a new wave of excruciating pain that I never dreamed could exist. Every. Moment. It really is a testament to how great our love was. Because this pain is our love, just the other side of it.

Please don’t comment on the health of our relationship or send any disparaging comments either of our ways. We’re each already in more pain than one person can handle and I don’t think we can take any more.

Thank you to my fellow brats. <3