I love my Dom , is that too soon ?
Yesterday I had my first experience with a Dom, and it was also my first time exploring submission. I’ve been talking to and dating this guy for about a month and a half.
During our scene, he tied me up, we had sex, and he made me squirt for the first time. He touched me in ways that felt incredible. We had already discussed having sex without protection beforehand, so that was consensual and planned.
During the scene, he told me that once he tied me up I was his, and that finishing inside me was his way of “marking” me. He had me repeat that I was his. At the same time, he was incredibly caring. He constantly checked in to make sure I was okay and enjoying myself, hugged me before and after, and told me how much he loved me. He treated me with so much kindness and care while also being very dominant during the scene.
This is my first experience with this kind of dynamic. It’s been one day since then, and he’s at work while I can’t stop thinking about him. I miss him so much, I feel like I need him, and I feel like I love him deeply. In previous vanilla relationships, I’ve never experienced feelings this intense.
I don’t feel anxious or unsafe—I actually feel very peaceful. At the same time, I have this overwhelming sense of longing and I miss him a lot.
Is this kind of emotional intensity normal after your first D/s experience? Has anyone else experienced something similar?