Clicker training, or similar
Hello! I am very new to all of this, but recently me and my partner thought of clicker training them, mainly in a non sexual way.
Now I've been trying to look into it more and I've mainly seen people use it like, behaviour→click→reward. Or on the other hand click→behavior→reward.
Again I've seen both be used but the first one more often, and if I'm honest, that one doesn't quite make sense to me? As in of course it's associating the click with the "treat" and makes your sub happy and/or associates good behaviour with the click. For me the second one, where the click is associated with a command just makes more sense as in, it's a quick, "silent" but serious command from what I've seen.
By any means I do not want to argue with anyone, I may be wrong on multiple things, in that case please feel free to correct me, I wanna learn, I just have a hard time understanding this and as long as I don't understand I don't feel comfortable actually doing it, but I would like the best for my partner too.
So if anyone could explain this or give some tips on how to do this, how to get into this it would be greatly appreciated!