Is there a ranking of US cities that are more open minded to large age gap relationships vs ones that are extremely judgmental about the idea of age gap relationships?
Is there a ranking of US cities that are more open minded to large age gap relationships vs ones that are extremely judgmental about the idea of age gap relationships?
I am currently 40 years old and live in Seattle. I prefer to date younger women in their 20's, however a common theme I get here is the women in their 20's say they are not comfortable dating someone my age or older. It gets very annoying that a giant pool of available single women in their 20's are rejecting me for this reason. I am starting to get fed up with the culture here (I've heard of places in the world that don't make a big deal about age gap relationships, yet here its treated like some kind of crime for a 50 year old man to be dating someone in their 20's). It's also annoying because there seems to be this double standard, I see these annoying older guys like Kash P, director of the fbi (I can't stand that guy) and hes dating some hot young singer "alexis" who looks way young, yet the media doesn't make a big deal about him.
Is there a ranking of such cities where the majority of people living there are open to the idea of age gap relationships vs ones that are not?
I have heard two different conflicting ideas on this:
on one hand I have heard that blue progressive cities tend to be against age gap relationships because the educated people in those cities view age gap relationships as harmful power dynamic BS. However, I have heard the same thing about conservative religious states don't view age gap relationships highly either, so not sure what is true regarding politics.
Something else that is contradictory is that blue cities tend to support LGBTQ rights, you would think that those cities would also be open minded to the idea of age gap relationships too right? or not?
I am not sure how to conclude the real truth. I am thinking about moving out of Seattle to a better place. I am not certain what other US City I should move too or possibly Canadian city. I want to move to a place where I can not be judged and a woman who is in her 20's will like me for me and not care about some BS reputation (apparently young women are afraid they will be judged by their friends if they are with an older guy..., at least in seattle). It is so annoying that women put their social media reputation and friends first at the cost of destroying a relationship with someone who might love them and want to start a family. I am fed up with Seattle. help me.