u/confusedsoulsearcher

If you rolled your eyes reading this question, then probably this isn't for you.

I'm trying to build an irl dynamic so I've been using dating apps (feeld) and going to kinky socials, but I'm having a hard time building a connection. I generally have a hard time connecting with people in everyday life (and I'm working on that), but dommes, how do (did) you approach being vulnerable to establish that connection while still being able to gauge real interest and weed out the users?