u/couchpotater3349

I have fine shoulder length blonde hair. I usually wear 26inch Bellami clip in extensions at work but I'm starting to get traction alopecia. Thinking about trying to switch to wigs instead. I've had tape ins and sew-in hair extensions in the past and they completely ruin my hair at the time.
Does anyone have any experience with wearing wigs from Hairvivi at work? I want the longest option they have but I'm worried that if I'm giving a lap dance and a customer accidentally tugs on it, it'll slide off or something crazy. I also have zero experience with wigs so I'm hoping for something relatively beginner friendly.

I have been at my newest club for a few months now. I am starting to have customers come up to me and referencing a conversation we allegedly had 2-3 months ago. I have no idea who they are or what they are talking about and it shows on my face. So then they immediately are getting upset and saying "you dont remember me do you?" I have been honest and saying "no, I dont." One of them even told me we did a room together but I couldn't remember him for the life of me.

I can't figure out how to play this off. It happened to me 3 times just this past week. I thought about being like, "sorry babe I just didn't hear you right the first time. of course I remember you" but then idk how to play it off.

I'm usually good with faces but I have been meeting so many people at this newest club, I dont remember them unless they are a problem or they pay exceptionally well.

Any thoughts/advice? Is anyone else experiencing this?

I’ve started dancing sober and it’s actually better than I expected. I didn’t think I could do it and now I only want to dance sober. It’s easier to spot time wasters and excuse myself.

The issue I’m having is that I don’t feel as fun when I’m sober. And customers immediately get weird when they find out I’m not drinking alcohol.

Should I just start pretending I’m drunk? And just make an agreement with the bartenders to only give me fake shots? I did that today and yesterday with one of the bartenders. It just made me nervous because what if the customer smells that there’s no alcohol in my shot? Lol probably a stupid paranoia but any tips are greatly appreciated.

I’m also thinking maybe I should just pretend that I popped a Molly and tell the customers I’m super horny or something stupid. I don’t care about getting dances but I do want to get rooms. I know that sometimes dances lead to rooms. Regardless, being sober is hindering me a bit because I’m too in my head