u/craniox

26 [F4M] #East Coast #VA #USA — Loyal submissive in need of a long-term dominant partner.

26 [F4M] #East Coast #VA #USA — Loyal submissive in need of a long-term dominant partner.

If this post is up, I'm accepting messages. I'm not here to do a few spicy scenes and a vanishing act. My submission runs deep once trust is established. If you're interested in unshakable loyalty and service, keep reading.

About Me

Basics: 26, located in Virginia, 5'3 (around 127lbs), INFJ, relatively fit (looking to be more active, I'd love a gym partner), pear body type; thighs for days. I'm more alternative, I have two tattoos, I'd love to get more. My pfp is my face. I'm willing to verify.

Lifestyle: When I'm not working, I love to game with my friends or solo (maybe with you too!). I mostly play Overwatch and Dead by Daylight. I make traditional and digital art. I write as well. I love making floral bouquets and cake decorating when I have time. I'll preserve all the bouquets you give me. Music and movies (especially horror) are a staple in my life as well.

Personality: I can be shy at first, still sweet and respectful. Once I'm more comfortable, you'll see how intense and needy I am, my humor, my submission. I feel things deeply, I love hard. If you don't like the thought of me liking you so much, I want to crawl in your skin, then I'm not the sub for you. I'm sharply observant and very sentimental. I'll notice how you respond to certain things I do. Even your quirks. Maybe you fold a towel a certain way, and I'll do the same for you. Do you like your coffee or tea a certain way? Of course you do. I'll watch. I'll ask. I'll remember. I love to please. I do have my bratty streaks, though, I will admit. Playing toxic games has given me a smart mouth at times. Good thing I love being reminded of my place.

What I Value: Deep conversation and connection, consistency, presence, emotional intelligence, mutual intensity. Don't just tell me nice things, do it.

What I Offer

Service and Submission: Shocker, I know. My submission and service would extend beyond the bedroom. Even if it's something as small as you ordering me to give you a kiss the second I see you, or sit at your feet while you work on something.

Emotional and Physical Fulfillment: I'm very compassionate and passionate. Once we've established a connection, my care for you will run as deep as my submission. I'll take care of you beyond sexually, especially on your bad days. Aside from my limits, I'm pretty open-minded. I get off on pleasing. So if you have a specific kink or fetish, it will turn me on seeing how turned on you are.

Commitment and Consistency: I've never cheated before. I'm strictly monogomous (and possessive), and I'm single. Communication is very important to me, I will always be open about my schedule and time constraints. I will show up as much as you show up for me. I match energy.

What I'm Looking For

Dominant Man: Preferably around my age or a little older. Although I'm not extremely shallow, physical attraction is still important to me. I will need some sort of connection physically as well as emotionally, I can't have one without the other. I will be asking for selfies. I will share as well. Taller (size difference kink), fit or in relatively good shape (I want to be active together), good hygiene. I love brown eyes and dark, shorter hair. That's not a deal-breaker for me, though, but I have noticed I'm more drawn to the clean-cut look. Bonus points if you have a nice voice.

Experience: I prefer a Dom who is experienced, I don't tolerate abuse of power. The more you respect my boundaries, the more I'll let you disrespect me, if you catch my drift.

Structure and Routine: I am neurodivergent, specifically on the spectrum (high-masking). Following a routine is very important to me, I struggle with inconsistency and last minute changes, that's why communication is so important to me. I want to feel molded and trained perfectly to tailor to your needs. I want to learn you inside and out.

TPE: I'm open to Master and Daddy Doms. Depending on who you are will depend on our dynamic. I love a dynamic that exists outside of the bedroom, even in subtle ways. I want to be able to shut off my brain around you. Your pleasure, satisfaction, and care will feel like a mental vacation for me.

Princess Treatment: I love being spoiled, but I'm not easily impressed by material things. I mostly mean being spoiled with attention and affection. I'm not going to stop you if you want to buy me things, but I'm the kind of person where if I want something nice, I just get it myself. Since my focus on you is to please, it's not too hard to please me (since I'm already pretty satisfied with submitting and serving). I like being coddled and babied. Sue me. Chivalry is attractive. I'm a slut for pet names (literally and figuratively).

Emotional Maturity: I'm actually very silly and playful (I reference brainrot memes a lot), but it's important to me that you know yourself and you have a relatively confident self-concept. If conflict arises, we both need to feel heard and understood to maintain trust and safety. I need to be able to be vulnerable with you. If I don't feel safe, I can't submit. If I feel like I can't trust you, I can't submit.

Physical Intimacy: I don't mind if you're a state or two away as long as you plan on meeting up at some point. If you're not in my area, I totally understand having to plan things out and get to know each other for a bit longer before seeing each other instead of having casual dates at first. If I feel a genuine connection, I'll do everything I can to work things out, but I do prefer if you took initiative. I don't enjoy the mental load of planning everything out especially dates. I like a 'be ready at this time, wear this' kind of dom. :)

Shared Investment: You want a deep connection, potential love, power exchange, and intimacy all in one relationship.

Kinks: prey, praise, degradation, masochism, orgasm control and denial, free-use, impact play, choking, light pet play (meow), masks, corruption/dumbification, and CNC. I have more, but we can discuss that better in DMs.

Limits: age-play, abdl, zoophilia, scat, watersports, emetophilia, sounding, anal (light play is fine), cuckholding, poly or open relationships.

If You're Still Reading

Thank you for your time! :3 Feel free to DM me on here. Tell me how you'd break me down just to rebuild me again, or what you like about my post. Or just introduce yourself and we can build something more. Effort is way hotter than a simple "hi" especially since I took a lot of time curating this post. Once we get past the basics and I feel like we are compatible, we can go from there.

Also, I can tell if you're using ChatGPT for your responses, if you need AI to tell you how to dom, you are not experienced enough for me.

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