Discovered a friend on Grindr
So I’m 45 and married(to a woman) for years I’ve been hiding in the closet. Last year was on Grindr chatting to a guy and something seemed very familiar. We chatted for a while and eventually he sent me a picture and I realised it was a friend who I had worked with for about 15 years. I got scared and pretended to be somebody else. Shortly after I went on a work trip and cut context through Grindr to keep my secret. About 6 months ago I was away with work again and he sent me an email (work related) just reading it knowing it was him made me horny. Randomly out of the blue I sent him a text message saying I had seen his email. A bit of normal usual friendly chat and then for some reason I sent a message that was a bit flirty. There was a delay he responded in a similar tone. This went on for a while. He then told me he had been playing rugby and couldn’t hold back anymore and messaged saying something along the lines of “I bet those post match showers look good” a delay again in his response to which he asked to prove it was me. Sent him a selfie and then he relaxed and the talk turned to sex. He said he had a suspicion that it had been me in Grindr, since then a lot of messaging realising eh was dom I was sub.
We are very professional at work but out of work he’s now the boss!
Have told him all my secrets and now I’m free use for him when ever he wants it.