Girlfriend wants this. How do we maximise our first time?
My girlfriend (25F) has given the green light - she’s going to get fucked by another man.
Background
So far we’ve had two experiences with the same guy. He’s come to our house and she’s been waiting on her knees, in brand new lingerie, he takes his cock out and she sucks him until he cums on her face. He leaves straight away and we have super intense sex while she’s covered in his load. Both times have been great - his cock is at least 8 inches and thick, and he’s been respectful and followed our rules (minimal talking, leave soon after cumming). She looks incredible with her mouth stretched around his his huge dick. The second time she sucked both of our dicks at the same time and I fucked her in doggy while he sat on the couch and eventually came all over her pretty little face. Zero jealousy from me either time, just pure lust and pride.
Yesterday we were sexting while I was at work and she was home using her vibrator and I told her I couldn’t stop thinking about her getting fucked from behind by that thick cock. Her response was, she wants to make it happen! We talked about it all day, and she confirmed she’d be happy for it to be the same guy as she feels more comfortable with him now. I messaged him and he said of course he would be keen.
When I got home from work, we talked about it some more and confirmed it wasn’t just dirty talk, she’s ready for it to happen. She then gave me an incredible blowjob and jerked me off slowly telling me how much she wants to be stretched out and for me to hold her while she moans from him. We then had sex and I came almost instantly when she told me she misses big cock (she had a couple of FWBs before we met who were big but not as big as this guy). It was incredibly hot and she gave me lots of after care afterwards.
Advice
So this is where advice is needed. What are the best ways for us to maximise this first experience? Are there any regrets husbands or wives gave their first time that we should try and avoid for ours? What are some scenarios you find really hot that we could include?
She likes it when I’m in control of how everything occurs, so my current thinking is we will start how we have so far, with him coming in to her on her knees waiting to be fed his dick. She will suck him for a while until I’ll ask her if it’s making her pussy wet - when she says yes I’ll tell her to stand up and show him at which point she will stand and let him feel her wetness from behind with his hand. I’ll then tell him he should feel it with his dick - he will start to rub his fat cock against the outside of pussy, teasing her, until she starts to push back on it and he is eventually inside her. Is this too prescriptive or is it better to just let them go for it?