Looking for anal strap-on dildo, but have been disappointed with the following:
Hi all, I would love your support. Of course searching for "good/best anal strap-on dildo" is an easy thing to do, but that's what led me to my current predicament.
I purchased the Lonehoney Advanced strapon kit (I think it's ok to post link because this is definitely not an ad) and also Fun Factory Limba Flex (size medium), which is harness compatible.
Both of these are rated highly and pop up often in forums, however I find these toys to be _really_ bad. Uncomfortable and painful. So what's the deal? They both share a quality I'll call "friction". inb4 "use more lube" - believe me, no amount of lube has solved this for me. They have a "pulling" quality to their surface, like it's pulling against my skin (which is not comfortable on the inside of my anus).
What I don't understand is that they're high quality silicone toys. But I have other silicone toys that do not have this friction/pulling problem. Unfortunately, none are strapon compatible.
So, of course, I'd love a nice anal strap-on rec, but I'd also love some validation from anyone else who's tried these toys, or has had similar experiences with other toys. I don't get why such highly esteemed toys feel so, so wrong for me. I'd love to find one that feels oh so right, without wasting more money on duds.
I love my metal nJoy wand, but of course it's heavy. I wonder if there are lightweight metal ones? What about glass? Or is there just better silicone out there for me?
Thanks all!
Bonus: I like decently hard materials. Too soft and squishy and my prostate doesn't feel anything. My nJoy wand is the best feeling toy I've used.