u/cycling-blindly

This might come across really wrong and I don't mean it to but it's something iv struggled with and I'm interested to get the opinions of those who also enjoy the hotwife lifestyles and have done it for a while.

My wife and I are still really new to this and currently it's a bit of fantasy role play with toys but also she's actively on Reddit, sharing nudes, posting on hotwife subs and chatting to other men. No physical meet ups but dipping our toes into the play side. She mainly plays when I'm away with work which is a regular occurrence and we have found it to be extremely hot and has made welcome back sex very good!

However I have a strange feeling in the back of my head that might just be ego or something but I keep sitting there thinking

(yeah this is hot, yeah I'm turned on but.. we're not the type of people to do all this?)

My wife and I have been together 13 years, married for 2, we have kids, own our house and to all our family and friends we are the couple that just drift through life on our family bubble, we don't drink and don't party but enjoy our holidays and living life with nice experiences.

In a non egotistical way I'm probably classed as successful in my career as I run a multi national sales company at the age of 33 and thus we do not want for much financially and my wife has a comfortable job which she does to socialise and earn us some pocket money for the holidays etc.

I just find something odd about thinking we are so stable and in most aspects not the type for anything risky or outlandish but then behind the bedroom door were sharing nudes of the wife, having sex with all assortment of toys and dirty talking about threesomes and watching her fuck other men... Is it just me been pathetic, is this normal? Does it always stay?

I can only explain it as weird lifestyle post nut clarity 🤣

So the wife and I have gotten a little more adventurous in our hotwife fantasy roleplay and I don't/can't share it with my mates so here I am coming to the Reddit community!

The wife and I have had a hotwife fantasy for about a year now but only on the last 4-5 months have we started playing with it more but her sharing pictures of her tits on Reddit and then flirting with guys who comment and DM-her. We were a bit hesitant at first but my wife has really got into the fact that having other men see her naked, comment and then as a married women she flirts back and has even sent additional photos to some lucky few (photos even I haven't got!) all whilst I'm away with work on Buisness trips.

Last time we did this she whipped out her vibrator and get herself and I quote (the hottest orgasm IV ever had). Now this time it seems we're stepping things up a bit more. After the last encounter she decided she wanted a sex machine so whilst I'm away she can set it up and get railed from behind whilst texting other men and also myself telling me about all the stuff she'd doing. We both have a fantasy to see her have sex with abother man but we're still a bit away from that right now. Time will tell!

As you can imagine this has sent me mad with excitement as she discussed sending more than just tit pics this time.

I have to be honest I don't know how we got to this point and I'm not sure where its going but it's so hot right now 😂

For the last few years, I've been fascinated by the idea of hotwifing with my wife. It first surfaced a few years ago when, caught up in the moment, we ended up exchanging intimate photos and videos with an old couple friend. The experience was incredibly exciting for both of us, and the following morning we had some of the most intense sex ever.

After that, the topic faded for a while, but our sex life continued to go up and down as she said it was hot but nothing she'd take further. Over the years we've become increasingly adventurous, trying out all range of dildos and larger toys but also things like anal (which she loves!)

About a year ago, dirty talk during sex turned toward fantasies involving larger dicks. What started as playful teasing gradually developed into more intense dirty talk and her admitting she finds she gets much better orgasms with toys bigger than I am (dicks around 7.5 inch).

Everything stayed at the dirty talk stage for a while until my best male friend admitted her found my wife's tits amazing and she caught him stating at her a number of times. It turns out she found this a massive turn on and started wearing tops to show her tits more and even went to the extend of going out braless so her nipples showed as he had told.me this was something that he fantasised about. Every time after we saw our friend we'd go home and she would be dropping wet and we'd fuck like animals. This progressed to where my wife actually told me to send a tit pic to him when we were (guy talking) to which he admitted he wanked over and again she turned into a feral sex animal. Things have now gone to a new.level.as my wife began posting photos on wife-sharing themed Reddit communities while I'm away for work, and she'd send me videos of herself masturbating to the attention and comments she received. Rather than creating distance between us, it reignited our sex life and brought back a level of excitement and anticipation we'd not felt since the early days of our relationship.

Through these conversations, she's admitted that she's genuinely curious about experiencing a threesome and exploring some of these fantasies in real life. At the same time, we're both aware of the risks. We're a happily married couple in our mid-thirties with two children, successful careers, and a strong relationship. Neither of us wants to jeopardize what we've built together for the sake of a kink.

Fast forward to yesterday: we're currently on a family holiday in Greece, and she turns to me with her tits out so I can take a picture of her tanned tits. I shared them on Reddit and then all of a sudden as soon as the kids are asleep she's got me in the shower fucking her as she talks about wanting another man to blow his load in her pussy and for me to go in and blow my load in her afterwards.

Just wanted to share how far things have come and see if anyone's gone through this situation and did the dynamic change for the better or worst?

Oh one thing to add is the wife now calls herself a hotwife in dirty play saying she's my good little hotwife showing her tits to thousands of men who want to wank over her etc etc