u/dakinemex

When we first met wife and I were just fuck buddies and I knew she was seeing other guys. After we were married she admitted that it wasnt only a "couple" guys. She was a barracks slut and used to get passed around by the guys in her platoon. When she joined the military and left home she admitted that she became super slutty and would fuck almost any guy that made a move. By the time we met she had fucked well over a hundred guys by her count.

When my wife(39) and I(40) started dating she was still seeing other guys before we became serious. After we got married I admitted how turned on I was when she was fucking other guys. We opened up our marriage and would have occasional mfm threesomes or watch her get fucked.

Several years ago I was looking through her phone for some family photos she had taken. She got a message from one of our mutual friends asking to meet up again, not thinking anything was going on I opened it up. Right above the message I saw photos she had sent. She had been fucking him for a while and never said anything.

I went through her messaging apps and saw that he wasnt the only one she was fucking behind my back. I was so mad and hurt but also so turned on that she was fucking other guys behind my back. I got so hard reading her conversations, how slutty and dirty she was. I had to go jerk off.

Its been about 5 years since I found out but I still havent said anything. I know the random late work days, the friend dates, or when she wants to know when ill be home from work/friends its because shes probably cheating. We still have a great sex life and fun with other guys but I cant help but get excited when she goes out to fuck around.