My girlfriend does no effort in bed
We‘ve been together for a few months now. At the beginning of our relationship we had some difficulties because it is very hard for her to come, so I started going down on her which works pretty well now even though it still takes a long time (a few days ago i was down there for almost 2 hours) When we have sex I do all the work which is quite exhausting after a while. Thats why I sometimes ask her to ride me and she agrees but gets tired after a minute and then we change again. Since the only way I can make her come is by going down on her, I do it everyday and as I‘ve said before it takes a rather long time. When we got together she gave me blowjobs every once in a while but now she stopped completely. When I ask her she just says no or that her jaw hurts while doing it (which is also the case for me after being down there for 30+ minutes) I told her that I feel like she‘s not putting in any effort and she said that I should be glad that I get to have sex with her. Don’t get me wrong, I love pleasing her but sometimes I would also like to get something in return. What should I do? I don’t want to hurt her feelings but I feel like she does not care whether I feel good or not and I don’t really want her to do anything if it really hurts while she‘s doing it. I still feel like Im the one doing anything though.
What should I do?
(I‘m sorry if there are some mistakes in the text, english isn’t my first language)