u/darkdependent4026

M4F You don't need to submit, you need to be broken, don't you?

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Hello there, In the depths of our depravity maybe we can also find a little sweetness for one another?

I hope this post finds you well, and I hope it piques your curiosity, even if it does come with an unusual title. The world can be a dark and twisted place, and I believe that in the midst of our darkest desires and deepest fantasies, we can still find moments of warmth and connection.

I'm a 31-year-old guy who's looking to explore the intricacies of human nature and desire with a like-minded female. I'm not here to solely focus on the depravity, but rather to find the sweetness that can coexist within it. After all, life is a complex blend of light and shadow, and our conversations can reflect that duality.

I'd love to include a list of kinks that's exhaustive, but honestly the thing keeps changing. It includes degradation, sadism, asphyxiation, humiliation, psychological conditioning, bondage, sensory deprivation, TPE, wardrobe control, face fucking, impact play, CNC, orgasm denial/control, temperature play, pet play, and a lot more. Perhaps it's time that I admit I'm just into most things. I love the more depraved themes, even the taboo ones, so if there's something you've been scared to say out loud, or admit to yourself, I'm definitely the right person to talk to.

Submitting to someone can feel so liberating, can it not? You allow yourself to shut down your inner voice and let someone else hold the reigns, sometimes physically, sometimes metaphorically.

But those of us who understand the intricacies of this dynamic understand how a majority of the time, it is the sub which is in control, you tell yourself you're obeying because your dom/domme ordered you to. But deep down you're manipulating your dom/domme into giving you what you want through your submission.

Some desire their dom's loving care, some desire their stinging smacks.

But I'm interested in none of that, what I'm interested in is breaking your mind. Warping your ideas and influencing your thoughts so strongly that you are no longer aware which thoughts are your own and which ones were planted by me.

I am not interested in just making you submit. I'm interested in using you like an object, a toy that only holds my fancy until I'm done with you and it's time to slip away. Nothing you do matters, you do it because it turns you on to be used and abused like this, not because you wish to make me happy. Because you know that to me you're nothing but a passing fancy, a stranger I just happened to stop and mold into my good little fuckdoll before unleashing her back into the world.

So, if you're intrigued by the idea of engaging in deep and meaningful conversations that explore the sweet and sultry sides of life, feel free to send me a message. Age is not a significant factor for me, but I do appreciate maturity and open-mindedness.

Also very open to speaking with newer subs, who are just starting off their journey. 

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u/darkdependent4026 — 12 days ago

31[M4F] #online #india Looking for a submissive with neglected kinky desires. Darker the better.

Hello there,

Your age, appearance, and race do not matter to me. What matters is that you are a submissive who fantasizes about being used by a Dominant man. Your kink consumes you but you have no way to release it. Perhaps you are in a relationship with someone who isn't into BDSM or perhaps you are single and just haven't found the right person to give you what you need. Either way, your urges have brought you here. You would never act on these desires, would you?

What I (31 M) lack is a submissive to order on her knees, to give her tasks or assignments, to give her structure, to mould you into the very thing you crave to live as. I have many kinks, bondage, orgasm control/denial, impact play, gags, collars, insertions are just some of them.

To start, I won't pretend I'm your Master from the first message. Your submission needs to be earned. It is earned through discussion, gaining trust, and building a connection. If I do earned your submission, I will have rules you will be required to follow, I will give you regular tasks to complete, I will respect any limits you may have, and I will allow you to fulfill those kinky desires that need to come out.

I get immense pleasure from making a girl writhe and moan under my control -  in pleasure, sure, if you deserve it, but for the sadist in me, pain is a very intoxicating addition to the mix. I want a girl that wants this - that wants to see what her limits are, that wants to be pushed right to the edge, held there for as long as possible, and then tipped over in the most exquisite excruciating way we can both manage.

I want you to give me control. Let me own your body and do whatever I want with it. I want to draw a map of pain up the inside of your thighs in bruises and bite marks. I want to leave a purple necklace on you. I want to leave lines of lust down your spine and I want you to let me have you in ways you can't imagine yet and yet fulfill your purpose. 

One sticking point is often pictures. I'm not just looking for pics. We can discuss your comfort level in sending pics, as well as any other limits you may have.

First step: Send me a message. I won't bite (I prefer spanking or slapping to biting) and we can just chat. Sending me a message telling me what about this post interested you is your first step to being a good girl. Hi is a nice start but I want to here about you and what you are looking for.

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u/darkdependent4026 — 13 days ago

31[M4F] #india Looking for a submissive with neglected kinky desires. Darker the better.

​

Hello little one,

Your age, appearance, and race do not matter to me. What matters is that you are a submissive who fantasizes about being used by a Dominant man. Your kink consumes you but you have no way to release it. Perhaps you are in a relationship with someone who isn't into BDSM or perhaps you are single and just haven't found the right person to give you what you need. Either way, your urges have brought you here. You would never act on these desires, would you?

What I (31 M) lack is a submissive to order on her knees, to give her tasks or assignments, to give her structure, to mould you into the very thing you crave to live as. I have many kinks, bondage, orgasm control/denial, impact play, gags, collars, insertions are just some of them.

To start, I won't pretend I'm your Master from the first message. Your submission needs to be earned. It is earned through discussion, gaining trust, and building a connection. If I do earned your submission, I will have rules you will be required to follow, I will give you regular tasks to complete, I will respect any limits you may have, and I will allow you to fulfill those kinky desires that need to come out.

I get immense pleasure from making a girl writhe and moan under my control -  in pleasure, sure, if you deserve it, but for the sadist in me, pain is a very intoxicating addition to the mix. I want a girl that wants this - that wants to see what her limits are, that wants to be pushed right to the edge, held there for as long as possible, and then tipped over in the most exquisite excruciating way we can both manage.

I want you to give me control. Let me own your body and do whatever I want with it. I want to draw a map of pain up the inside of your thighs in bruises and bite marks. I want to leave a purple necklace on you. I want to leave lines of lust down your spine and I want you to let me have you in ways you can't imagine yet and yet fulfill your purpose. 

One sticking point is often pictures. I'm not just looking for pics. We can discuss your comfort level in sending pics, as well as any other limits you may have.

First step: Send me a message. I won't bite (I prefer spanking or slapping to biting) and we can just chat. Sending me a message telling me what about this post interested you is your first step to being a good girl. Hi is a nice start but I want to here about you and what you are looking for.

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u/darkdependent4026 — 13 days ago

M4F - Looking for a submissive with neglected kinky desires. Darker the better.

Hello little one,

Your age, appearance, and race do not matter to me. What matters is that you are a submissive who fantasizes about being used by a Dominant man. Your kink consumes you but you have no way to release it. Perhaps you are in a relationship with someone who isn't into BDSM or perhaps you are single and just haven't found the right person to give you what you need. Either way, your urges have brought you here. You would never act on these desires, would you?

What I (31 M) lack is a submissive to order on her knees, to give her tasks or assignments, to give her structure, to mould you into the very thing you crave to live as. I have many kinks, bondage, orgasm control/denial, impact play, gags, collars, insertions are just some of them.

To start, I won't pretend I'm your Master from the first message. Your submission needs to be earned. It is earned through discussion, gaining trust, and building a connection. If I do earned your submission, I will have rules you will be required to follow, I will give you regular tasks to complete, I will respect any limits you may have, and I will allow you to fulfill those kinky desires that need to come out.

I get immense pleasure from making a girl writhe and moan under my control -  in pleasure, sure, if you deserve it, but for the sadist in me, pain is a very intoxicating addition to the mix. I want a girl that wants this - that wants to see what her limits are, that wants to be pushed right to the edge, held there for as long as possible, and then tipped over in the most exquisite excruciating way we can both manage.

I want you to give me control. Let me own your body and do whatever I want with it. I want to draw a map of pain up the inside of your thighs in bruises and bite marks. I want to leave a purple necklace on you. I want to leave lines of lust down your spine and I want you to let me have you in ways you can't imagine yet and yet fulfill your purpose. 

One sticking point is often pictures. I'm not just looking for pics. We can discuss your comfort level in sending pics, as well as any other limits you may have.

First step: Send me a message. I won't bite (I prefer spanking or slapping to biting) and we can just chat. Sending me a message telling me what about this post interested you is your first step to being a good girl. Hi is a nice start but I want to here about you and what you are looking for.

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u/darkdependent4026 — 13 days ago