u/digital-fawn

A few nights ago at this new club, another girl suggested I introduce myself to a regular like 10 mins before closing. After he’d warmed up, she came back around and suggested we do an after hours room (which I didn’t even know was a possibility since again I’m brand new!!). In turn, I told him to take us both in the room and it seemed like he was down, but I lost track of what happened after the host got involved and ended up doing the room myself.

This other girl has been at the club for a long time and has been giving me free game left and right. This seemed like a huge favor and I feel bad that she didn’t get anything out of it. Maybe it’s not that deep and she just wanted to get home but idk.

(How) should I address this the next time I see her? I just want to avoid any drama/lingering feelings of obligation.

Auditioned and was rejected at two Manhattan GCs last night so wanted to get some feedback on my look/approach:

* I felt like my appearance was along the lines of what’s recommended (nails, makeup, etc done) aside from my hair, which did not survive the humidity/thunderstorm. My hair in general is a layered shag/slightly plain, could this be a problem?
* I was honest when asked and said I had no experience as a dancer but have worked in nightlife as a bartender/server. Should I just lie about this in the future lol?
* One of the clubs told me to come back in two months. Wasn’t sure how to interpret this… slow and too many girls already?

Pics taken immediately after I got home. Planning to try the sapphires next week, they no longer do auditions on Fridays.

Etiquette when another girl puts you on

Seeking feedback NYC