Session tonight and I’m a little nervous
I have been in the community for a while, but haven’t had a long term play sub before. I am meeting someone who wants that, I’ve only done gentle domme stuff in the past. Previous “mommy” reached out since she is leaving the state and he needs a new domme. She said he liked things very rough. I am struggling a little with the idea of that, since I’ve only ever been gentle before. Is there a thing or mantra you use to help you get there or place you back in the session to be tough. Although this is a new extension of community, I am oddly nervous. All suggestion or insights are helpful.
Edit - Of course I spoke with him as well. She initially reached out to me, for him. But we (he and I) discussed expectations and desires. He also agreed with her on what these are.