u/dragonking118

I am looking for SBs here in the tricity..

DM me for further details.

Common Questions I've Been Getting as a SD (Answered)

I've been getting a lot of the same questions on my previous post, so instead of answering them one by one, I figured I'd put everything in one place. Hopefully this also helps anyone new who's reading my post.

**1. Why is your profile only a few weeks old?**

Like I mentioned before, I was in a long term arrangement with an SB who recently relocated out of bangalore for work, so we ended things on good terms. We actually met offline, so I never really had a reason to use Reddit before. After she left a few people suggested I try Reddit since there seems to be a fairly active sugar community here.

**2. Why do you ask for pictures?**

Honestly, because attraction matters. Im looking for an SB, and physical attraction is obviously part of that. That may sound shallow, but attraction matters in any relationship. I'm happy to exchange pictures as well, and to be clear, I'm not asking for nudes or anything NSFW. Just normal photos that you'd be comfortable sharing publicly or on social media.

**3. Why don't you do virtual arrangements or start virtually?**

I have learned this lesson the hard way. I dont send money online or upfront before meeting someone and building trust. At the same time, I dont think its fair for me to expect anything from you for free either. If Im not providing support, I dont expect your time or effort without compensation. To avoid misunderstandings, I prefer meeting in person first.

**4. Why won't you send an advance or token amount to prove you're genuine?**

This is probably the question I get the most.

Personally, I don't think sending ₹3k–₹5k proves much. It doesn't prove I can maintain an arrangement, and it doesn't prove we're compatible. What it does do is create a situation where one person is taking a risk before even meeting.

Instead, my approach is pretty simple. Pick any 4- or 5-star hotel that you're comfortable with and I'll make the booking. I'll send you the confirmation, and you can call the hotel and verify yourself. We can meet in the lobby, restaurant, or any public area of the hotel and see if we even click. (Most hotels have security so it would be a safe place and the room will mostly probably cost more that the token)

To me, that's a much better way of showing that I'm serious than sending a random token payment.

**5. How much allowance do you offer?**

There isn't a fixed answer because every arrangement is different.

Things like compatibility, chemistry, expectations, frequency of meetings, and overall connection all play a role. I'm happy to discuss it openly and negotiate something that works for both of us. If things change down the line, Id rather have an honest conversation than make promises I cant keep.

**7. Why are you looking for an SB instead of one-time meets?**

Because chemistry takes time to develop. For me intimacy is far more enjoyable when it's with someone I genuinely connect with and enjoy spending time with. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial arrangement with consistency rather than purely transactional one time encounters.

Anyway, those are the questions I get asked most often. If there's something I haven't covered, feel free to ask. I'd rather be upfront about things from the start so nobody ends up wasting their time.

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I am 42.

I love traveling.

I read books. Not enough as I would like to.

I am into fitness and try to do two workouts a day. Functional training which includes swimming, hyrox simulation and running.

I am conversant with Hindi and English.

I love history and geography.

Let's share the emails on DM to connect further....

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I am 42.

I have lived in the times when you actually used to write long letters and post it in an envelope.

Thereafter it used to be a long wait and anxious anticipation of the reply from your pen pal or your girlfriend.

I love traveling.

I read books. Not enough as I would like to.

I am into fitness and try to do two workouts a day. Functional training which includes swimming, hyrox simulation and running.

I like to write couplets in hindi.

I am conversant with Hindi and English.

I love history and geography.

Let's share the emails on DM to connect further....

Hi,

Are there any SB in Chandigarh.

Looking for some.

Looking for a SB of any age.

Across India. Will travel to you.

Transaction post verification and f2f.

Something about myself

I am 42.

I have lived in the times when you actually used to write long letters and post it in an envelope.

I love traveling.

I read books. Not enough as I would like to.

I am into fitness and try to do two workouts a day. Functional training which includes swimming, hyrox simulation and running.

Let's connect through DM to get to know each other better.