Needs some input (sorry, it’s long)
I am looking to get some tips of how to push the boundary with my new masseuse.
Went to a new clinic and chose this masseuse since I prefer male therapists, and he was cute lol.
Anyways, as he walked me back to his room, I was surprised to see that his was on a different floor, farthest from the entrance - and here, my spider senses started tingling. He asked what my problem areas were - lower back, legs, shoulders, the usual. I strip naked and get under the covers. He starts by applying pressure on my back and legs, and glutes with the sheet, I assume to loosen my muscles. He then lowers the sheet so that the upper portion of my crack is showing and starts massaging my back with oil. His touch felt different from other male therapists. There was a slight touch (pun intended) of almost lingering, and some lightness to it and whenever he would stroke my whole back to my lower back, and it felt he kept lowering the sheet so more of my ass was exposed (my full ass never got exposed, sadly).
When he started massaging the back of my legs, when he revealed my leg and cheek, he never put the cloth under my leg to fully conceal the bits as how other therapists have done, but rather just rolled it up to fully expose one of my cheeks, and just lay the sheet over my crack. He had no problems oiling up my cheek and massaging my upper leg. Again, with that lingering touch, but he didn’t get close to my balls, or any wandering fingers by my crack.
When he turned me over, he started massaging my arms and it felt like he had no problem with my hard resting on his stomach (or some other body part, I’m not sure since I had a cloth on top of my eyes) while he went through the motions. Again, with that lingering touch.
Sadly, that he only massaged my upper torso and never touched my thighs.. he said the message was over, thanked me and wished me a good night. I saw the clock, and there was 15 minutes remaining in my 90 minute session.
Has anyone else experienced something similar? Was the remaining time meant for me to finish myself since he didn’t, since I feel like 15 minutes was still a lot of time left. Not sure if im reading into it, since an oil massage does innately have a sensual component, but I ended up re-booking a 2 hour session a month from now, cause apart from the curiosities I have, it truly was one of the best massages I’ve had, and I wonder if it was because of my perceived extra layer of ‘something’. He was also of East Indian descent, and i haven’t come across many East Indian men who choose this profession, so it rattles my brain to wonder if he chose it since East Indian culture has been historically super conservative and this can be a way of discreet fun?
Tell me I’m delusional or tell me I’m on to something, but open to comments. Thanks!