u/dutch_gymbro

Hey, I need your brutal honesty on a weird situation…

My mom and I are very close and often go clubbing together (I live on my own). I have a major weakness for one-piece swimsuits and bought a sporty Speedo swimsuit for her.

I previously hinted at it by saying my ex left it behind. She missed the hint, but later that night she slept naked next to me and climbed over me in bed (she didn't mention this to my dad). She also knows from my past relationship that I find swimsuits attractive.

My ultimate fantasy is to have her try it on for me (in a low-key kinky way) after our next night out. Is there any non-creepy way to approach this, or is this a definitive line I shouldn't cross?

Thanks 👀

I (25M) have a very close relationship with my mom (51F). I live by myself, and she regularly comes over to visit and go clubbing/out with me.

I have a major weakness for one-piece swimsuits. I bought a sporty one for her, but it feels incredibly awkward to just hand it to her. My idea is to give it to her in my bedroom when we return to my apartment after partying.

Prior context:
- I already tried a subtle approach once: I showed it to her and lied saying, “My ex left this swimsuit behind." It backfired because she just assumed I was heartbroken over my ex, rather than taking the hint to try it on. Then we went to sleep.
- During my past relationship, I confessed to my mom that I have a weakness for swimsuits and find them attractive. She got it at the time, but now she seems hesitant to wear one for me (she usually prefers bikinis, only sometimes one-pieces).

Any advice on how I can transition into giving her this swimsuit in my bedroom after a night out without ruining the vibe?

I (25M) have a very close relationship with my mom (51F). I live by myself, and she regularly comes over to visit and go clubbing/out with me.

I have a major weakness for one-piece swimsuits. I bought a sporty one for her, but it feels incredibly awkward to just hand it to her. My idea is to give it to her in my bedroom when we return to my apartment after partying.

Prior context:
- I already tried a subtle approach once: I showed it to her and lied saying, “My ex left this swimsuit behind." It backfired because she just assumed I was heartbroken over my ex, rather than taking the hint to try it on. Then we went to sleep.
- During my past relationship, I confessed to my mom that I have a weakness for swimsuits and find them attractive. She got it at the time, but now she seems hesitant to wear one for me (she usually prefers bikinis, only sometimes one-pieces).

Any advice on how I can transition into giving her this swimsuit in my bedroom after a night out without ruining the vibe?