u/easilydisappointed

My last post got taken down by the mods, unsure as to why. Hopefully this one sticks around…

Let me do the work of traveling to you. I work in the west burbs (and live even further than that) and my pool of folks is… in dire need of a cleaning.

I miss feeling wanted and I think with a birthday coming up in a few weeks, I’m probably getting a bit antsy about it. Give me a little joy every time my phone lights up. I’d love to find something consistent.

About me: 35, half-Latina/half-white, single, and a mom. I am very far left and looking for the same. Love a good patio cocktail and getting to know someone. I’m not really one for one-night stands. On the curvier side, and I’ve been told I have great boobs and other talents. I’m definitely on the kinkier side of the bedroom and would like to continue exploring that, but further details can be saved for messages.

About you, ideally: 30-45 (sorry to the younger guys, I need my partners to be able to remember there was a time that we could walk all the way to a gate at the airport with a ticket). Sane, clean, hygienic, progressive values, not an asshole, and also has some experience in kink (ideally with being dominant, sorry to the submissive guys). Not looking for partnered or married folks.

Low-effort messages will be ignored. Ideally, we share pics early on to ensure mutual attraction.

Y’all are gonna fight me for being so generic, but there’s a reason! Let me do the work of traveling to you. I work in the west burbs (and live even further than that) and my pool of folks is… in dire need of a lifeguard.

I miss feeling wanted and I think with a birthday coming up, I’m probably getting a bit antsy about it. Give me a little joy every time my phone lights up. I’d love to find something consistent.

About me: 35, half-Latina/half-white, extremely single, and a mom. I am very far left and looking for the same. Love a good patio cocktail and getting to know someone. On the curvier side, and I’ve been told I have great boobs. I’m definitely on the kinkier side of the bedroom and would like to continue exploring that, but further details can be saved for messages.

About you, ideally: 30-45 (sorry to the younger guys, I need my partners to have the unique millennial trauma of watching 9/11 coverage in school). Sane, clean, hygienic, progressive values, not an asshole, and also has some experience in kink (ideally with being dominant, sorry to the submissive guys)

Low-effort messages will be ignored.

35, single mom, trying to find something outside of my local dating pool (Rockford-ish) and willing to travel if the fit is right. I’ve spent time on the apps, and I feel like it’s been hit or miss, so I’m back to try this route again…

My availability is a bit limited, but I’d like to see if we connect over chat and then meet publicly in person. Ideally, this would be an ongoing thing as I’m not trying to sleep with random guys.

A little bit more about me - 5’8”, curvy, half-Latina, frequent listener of audiobooks, and excited about warmer weather since it means beach days are close. Love getting lost in a book, crocheting, or watching a great tv show, and I hate AI. I enjoy a good cocktail on a patio this time of year.

Kink-wise? I know I’m a switch, I can’t stay submissive 100% of the time, even though that’s where I’m comfortable. Sometimes, I just need someone who will listen and follow instructions the first time I give them. Would love to explore forced orgasms, edging, impact play, bigger toys, and I’ll leave some mystery here.

About you - ideally between 30-45 (strict), sane, hygienic, DDF, not a creep or a conservative (I like my bodily autonomy, thx). Also, please don’t be married, or looking for a third. I’m selfish about my partners.

Please also be willing to share pictures early on as physical attraction is important to me. Looking forward to hearing from you soon!

35, single mom, trying to find something outside of my local dating pool (Rockford-ish) and willing to travel if the fit is right. In my experience, guys from Wisconsin seem a bit more pleasant than the guys in Illinois. I’ve spent time on the apps, and I feel like it’s been hit or miss, so I’m back to try this route again…

My availability is a bit limited, but I’d like to see if we connect over chat and then meet publicly in person. Ideally, this would be an ongoing/long-term thing.

A little bit more about me - 5’8”, curvy, half-Latina, frequent listener of audiobooks, and excited about warmer weather since it means beach days are close. Love getting lost in a book, crocheting, or watching a great tv show, and I hate AI. I enjoy a good cocktail on a patio this time of year. Excited to get outdoors again for hiking, being near water, and generally taking in nature. I should probably also mention that I’m not exactly vanilla (switchy, lean sub), but please don’t make that the sole focus. Again, I’m looking to date, not hook up with random men.

About you - ideally between 30-45 (strict), sane, hygienic, DDF, not a creep or a conservative (I like my bodily autonomy, thx). Also, please don’t be married, or looking for a third. I’m selfish about my partners.

Please also be willing to share pictures early on as physical attraction is important to me. Looking forward to hearing from you soon!