u/enderlink12

24 [M4F] Sweet nerd #Online or near alabama #Florence looking for a soft and attentive dom; long term or casual

About me

I'm a nerdy boy, living with my family (a parent and disabled sibling). I don't have a job because there's not a lot of opportunity for me at the moment. I'm smart and healthy but too broke for a car to do proper work. My day to day is just taking care of myself, trying to help around the house, cooking, practicing something like art, talking to friends, working out, and gaming.

On the fun side, I get cutesy, use emoji sometimes too much, write a lot  - think a girly looking baby face nerd in flannel and tie-dye blushing because he’s too shy and choking up while trying to call you beautiful, who really hopes you find him cute ❤️

I love to cook, game, do pixel art, watch anime, electronics repair and with that retro electronics like CRT TV and classic gaming consoles. I'm a fast reader, interested in getting into writing. If I had a partner locally, I'd want to go out into nature - fishing, hiking maybe even forage some! I never use Ai for writing or art either.

If you lived close enough, you could visit, my family is out sometimes too. I have a retro gaming set-up, so we could sit together and play old games - or game online too; that would be a massive plus for me if you're interested in that

I'm a virgin too, I have a decent amount of online experience when it comes to safe play, consent, communication - I'll always listen and willing to learn more, I retain information very well!

I think if you gave me a shot, I could really impress you. I know I’m not perfect but I’ll do the very best I can for you with all that I have!

My looks

Skinny with a slight tone - 100 pounds, 5'8; I have a 7 inch uncut cock, fluffy brown hair with large curls, dark blue eyes, glasses. white, and working on gaining weight and muscle. I keep a clean shave and have a very sharp jaw too!

I like to cross dress because I love having an outfit picked out, and to feel pretty and cute 💕 My skin is pretty soft and smooth; I have a bit of an feminine look, with an hourglass figure.

I'm always keeping up on my hygiene, skin care too!

What I'm looking for

This section is long because I’m detailed - not trying to be picky! I want a 20+ yo woman who values communication, the type of person who could listen to me rant, enjoy teasing me and talking throughout the day - I don't need constant attention, but I'll take it gladly! When I'm in love or obsessed you'll be on my mind everyday 💕

I'm open to a casual or more intense long term/forever dynamic. One day I hope to find the right person and settle down.

I'm monogamous, and I don't want to be judged for being Christian. I'm very open, not a bigot, and I expect the same from you! I can handle deeper topics but I always place my own values in how people personally treat me first, it would be really hard to push me away with your beliefs. I’m very sexually open, and I don’t expect it to be an issue in our dynamic.

In person, I'm fine with up to three hours away or very willing to travel for me!

And online, it’s okay if you have other partners if you can usually make time for me about once a week (but more often more, you know?) and don’t involve other men as an active thing in our dynamic; and I’m still going to be looking for an in person connection during our dynamic too.

Lastly, you know my situation - I'm not asking for a savior, just a helping hand!

What else I offer

If I moved in with you, I would do everything around the house I could - it wouldn’t take me long to master cleaning, and I’m practiced at cooking and can pick up new recipes easily too; I’m also into sharpening so we’d never have dull knife! If anything broke around the house I’d look into how to fix it, consumer electronics being the most likely that I could deal with.

I’m decent with tech stuff, no IT guy but I can get the best out of your TV/monitor, setup gaming servers, build a PC, use windows at a power level, set up a PC for output to CRT TV, stuff like that.

Relationally, I’m very sweet and open; I want to give messages, be romantic, make your favorite meals - do everything I can to make you comfortable at home. Of course I’d be free use, and I’ll let you decide almost anything you like about me; part of the domination aspect I love is being able to completely give myself to someone! I'm loyal, love to talk and listen, love to show off, and share my hobbies.

Eventually I want to make money for us, learn to garden; and just live a nice life with my girlfriend. I could be more ambitious if things improve a lot but that’s all I want now. I have a creative side and I’d like to use that. Maybe higher education too.

Outside of this scenario, I’ll fully and openly involve you in my life whenever you’re willing to visit - I’m not looking for something discreet, I’d like you to visit often, meet my family! I’m sure we can get the place to ourselves sometimes.

My kinks

None of these are a requirement, except that you be open to foot stuff!

Pet play (names, collars, leashes - I'm pretty light on it), Feet, getting flipped off, bullying/humiliation, CNC, pegging - anal, dildo plug and other toy use, object humping, cross dressing, cum play, joi/task play, light BDSM and CBT

You could call me a foot puppy type, I want to be leashed, at your feet, dolled up, probably about to be pegged by you 💕

My Limits

Cucking, scat, illegal, blackmail, raceplay, beast, long term chastity/denial - probably some other extreme things - I'll always communicate if I'm uncomfortable with something

Ending

To finish, I'm pretty open right now - all I ask if you're interested in any way is to send a nice message; I'm glad to talk anytime to get closer and build something! I'm very patient and waiting on the right person to build something that's fun for the both of us, even if just casually.

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