u/expressed_emu228

Hey there, looking for some insight here from someone who has experience with this preferably. Just for context… I’m 22M/ She’s 23F, we’ve been together for 5 years, live together, about to propose, etc.

I’ve had a big Femdom fetish for as long as I could remember. I’ve been wanting to try pegging and chastity mostly but am afraid of her not being interested in this. I’ve thrown around the idea with her a few weeks ago after she joked about putting a finger up there and said I’d want to try that. She said that’s not something she’s ready or open to doing at this time. The thing is I was hoping for that to be a stepping stone into some more kinky intimacy.

How do I have that conversation with her again that I want to try a few new things of that genre. If all goes well, are there any tips to make that exploration an easier transition or make these acts more enjoyable for each party?

Thanks in advanced!

Hey there, looking for some insight here from someone who has experience with this preferably. Just for context… we’ve been together for 5 years, live together, about to propose, etc.

I’ve had a big Femdom fetish for as long as I could remember. I’ve been wanting to try pegging and chastity mostly but am afraid of her not being interested in this. I’ve thrown around the idea with her a few weeks ago after she joked about putting a finger up there and said I’d want to try that. She said that’s not something she’s ready or open to doing at this time. The thing is I was hoping for that to be a stepping stone into some more kinky intimacy.

How do I have that conversation with her again that I want to try a few new things of that genre. If all goes well, are there any tips to make that exploration an easier transition or make these acts more enjoyable for each party?

Thanks in advanced!