This is the year for change. We will only experience this life once & I truly believe everyone has a chance to get a piece of this lifestyle, but you must position yourself & go for it.
No approaches because I was stuck inside the croud/moshpit, but still had girls around me / grinding on me. Anyways, got a tinder chick coming over.
Will be completely sober this time.
Nightlife is something man. Still figuring it out. My main focus was being comfortable by myself.
Competition is real.
I’d say this was a success so far as being present & enjoying myself.
Made it a goal to go out alone every weekend to practice approaches & improve my social skills.
Got rejected 5 times. Not giving up yet, I will continue until I succeed.
Will let you guys know how it goes.
Here’s my main issue, jealousy/envy is a thing.
My city doesn’t have the ideal party “croud.” like most cities. All the clubs I’ve been too have been ghetto, bad vibes or have a terrible guy/girl ratio.
The last thing I want to experience is getting into a fight/jumped by some dude(s) because I’m winning with all the girls in the vicinity.
For some reason, I’ve been tested multiple times by guys waaay below me at clubs, bars, house parties. Angry losers you know?
For anyone who had this same issue, how the f*ck do I find the chill “upper middle class” croud of party people? I would rather hangout around guys who can pickup girls than a bunch of guys who are losers & think they’ll impress girls by acting tough.
Having a cool guy group would be optimal right now but I’m solo & don’t know any people who are into pickup/game. So I prefer to be super cautious.