u/feelingsweetberry

Hi!

I’m 26f, in the western US, and I’m looking for a dominant man to experiment and explore with. This might be unusual, because I have always identified as a lesbian. But I’ve always sort of felt a curiosity about men. And I’ve always been submissive.

So over the last year, when my wife and I have been talking about opening our relationship, she’s encouraged me to explore my bisexual side. So now that we’re officially practicing ENM, it seemed like a good time to start looking! And I feel like for someone kink driven and naturally submissive like me, doing it in a BDSM context is the best way to start.

I’m looking for a Dom who is patient, experienced, a good communicator, who puts in effort and someone I can have fun with and trust. That all takes time, so please be willing to put in the time and enjoy the “getting to know each other” phase.

Kink-wise, it’s all about control and power for me. So if you’re someone who likes to make decisions for others and likes holding power, then we’ll probably be compatible when it comes to kink. We can get into more specifics later though.
Please tell me a little about yourself in your first message, doesn’t need to be long but just so I know who I am talking to. Feel free to ask me anything too, I know this might be a strange situation for some, but I’m open to sharing more details if you’re curious.

Can’t wait to hear from you!

Hi!

I’m 26f, in the western US, and I’m looking for a dominant man to experiment and explore with. This might be unusual, because I have always identified as a lesbian. But I’ve always sort of felt a curiosity about men. And I’ve always been submissive.

So over the last year, when my wife and I have been talking about opening our relationship, she’s encouraged me to explore my bisexual side. So now that we’re officially practicing ENM, it seemed like a good time to start looking! And I feel like for someone kink driven and naturally submissive like me, doing it in a BDSM context is the best way to start.

I’m looking for a Dom who is patient, experienced, a good communicator, who puts in effort and someone I can have fun with and trust. That all takes time, so please be willing to put in the time and enjoy the “getting to know each other” phase.

Kink-wise, it’s all about control and power for me. So if you’re someone who likes to make decisions for others and likes holding power, then we’ll probably be compatible when it comes to kink. We can get into more specifics later though.
Please tell me a little about yourself in your first message, doesn’t need to be long but just so I know who I am talking to. Feel free to ask me anything too, I know this might be a strange situation for some, but I’m open to sharing more details if you’re curious.

Can’t wait to hear from you!