Why is everything all about the cock?!

For context, so far all of my play has been online, so my perspective is already skewed. I know that.

Still, my impression of (cis) gay guys is that they're... very phallocentric. Very focused on getting it in there, or getting their hands on it. And it's all about the penis. When you masturbate, you jerk off. That's it. When I ask what part is the most sensitive, you say, "I don't know, just, like, the whole thing."

As a Dom I have to explain to so many guys that touching your balls, your perineum, flexing your PC muscle, or even just controlled breathing can feel amazing and be a way to achieve pleasure. A lot of you barely seem to know your bodies, and it makes me sad. You're missing out.

I'm a trans man with a vulva. My orgasms aren't visible and not easily quantifiable. If you have a cock, it shoots a load, and that way you know you came. That's what sex is about, or at least so it seems to a lot of guys.

Maybe that's what incentives me to have a more broad definition of what it means to have an orgasm. I think if you have a vulva you understand more intuitively that orgasmic experiences can come from many different things, not just rubbing one out. Fuck, have you ever had a really good cup of tea when you were cold? That's basically an orgasm.

Jokes aside, I love to incorporate sensory exercises and guided imagination or meditation into play. I would love for men to get more in touch with their bodies and their own emotions and not let ideals of what it means to have "real" sex prevent them from having the best time they could possibly have.

Am I making sense at all? Do you use strategies like these?

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u/feinslieb — 6 days ago

[F4A] [A4F] Looking for a hucow transformation hyperpreg RP!

I can offer two main flavours:

  1. A happy, wholesome domestic or organic barn setting in which a hyperfertile woman and her farmer husband or employer add a bit of bovine growth hormone into their fun. Maybe the woman decides to become a surrogate.

  2. A darker industrial scenario in which the hucow character is being trained to become a breeding, milking and birthing machine. The longer she's trained and stretched, the more her brain is rushing with pleasure and hormones, the more her body transforms, the more she begins to love her new life.

... Or a blend of anything in-between! If you have an idea for a plot that lies somewhere in the middle, feel free to reach out!

I'm open to playing either role, the hucow or the one taking care of her, whichever way you prefer.

Kinks I absolutely want to include:
Breast expansion, hucow, hyperpregnancy (constant breeding, multipreg, permapreg, rapid preg), milking, excessive cum, excessive precum, squirting, abundant orgasms, sex addiction, brainwashing/personality transformation, pussy expansion (stretching, fisting, gaping, growing clits), birthing!

Other kinks I enjoy:
Master/slave dynamics, hypnosis and mind control, weight gain, captor/captive scenarios, weight gain, petplay, semi-humans (e.g. vampires, demons, succubi), monster cocks, oviposition, omegaverse.

Limits:
Anything relating to the children being born (I'd much prefer for us to discuss a somewhat ethical in-universe explanation to how they're taken care of, or for the scene to "fade to black" at that point). Any blood or gore. Problematic pregnancies. Hyper cocks or balls - a bit of growth and swelling is fine, just nothing too extreme. Super unrealistic, unproportional hyper growth. Blueberry transformations. Furries/anthros (Love it for you, just not my thing).

1-2 paragraphs per response is the ideal length for me. No asterisk roleplay.

If the post is still up, I'm still looking!

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u/feinslieb — 1 month ago

[A4F] Looking for a hucow transformation permapreg RP!

I can offer two main flavours:

  1. A happy, wholesome domestic or organic barn setting in which a hyperfertile woman and her farmer husband or employer add a bit of bovine growth hormone into their fun. Maybe the woman decides to become a surrogate.

  2. A darker industrial scenario in which the hucow character is being trained to become a breeding, milking and birthing machine. The longer she's trained and stretched, the more her brain is rushing with pleasure and hormones, the more her body transforms, the more she begins to love her new life.

... Or a blend of anything in-between! If you have an idea for a plot that lies somewhere in the middle, feel free to reach out!

I'm open to playing either role, the hucow or the one taking care of her, whichever way you prefer.

Kinks I absolutely want to include:
Breast expansion, hucow, hyperpregnancy (constant breeding, multipreg, permapreg, rapid preg), milking, excessive cum, excessive precum, squirting, abundant orgasms, sex addiction, brainwashing/personality transformation, pussy expansion (stretching, fisting, gaping, growing clits), birthing!

Other kinks I enjoy:
Master/slave dynamics, hypnosis and mind control, weight gain, captor/captive scenarios, weight gain, petplay, semi-humans (e.g. vampires, demons, succubi), monster cocks, oviposition, omegaverse.

Limits:
Anything relating to the children being born (I'd much prefer for us to discuss a somewhat ethical in-universe explanation to how they're taken care of, or for the scene to "fade to black" at that point). Any blood or gore. Problematic pregnancies. Hyper cocks or balls - a bit of growth and swelling is fine, just nothing too extreme. Super unrealistic, unproportional hyper growth. Blueberry transformations. Furries/anthros (Love it for you, just not my thing).

1-2 paragraphs per response is the ideal length for me. No asterisk roleplay.

If the post is still up, I'm still looking!

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u/feinslieb — 1 month ago

[F4A] Expand your live-in sex slave!

Hi! I'm looking for some good, straightforward smut in a setting that's simultaneously pretty dark and pretty silly:

I'll be playing your very own Girltoy(TM), a bought live-in sex servant designed for personal use. Maybe I'm a life-sized android doll, maybe I'm a human who was bred and conditioned for this exact purpose. No matter what, I exist to be fucked, bred and filled by you, and my not-so-discrete expansive abilities are highly sought after.

Genders listed are only referring to the characters. I'm open to RP partners of any gender!

Kinks I DESPERATELY WANT to include:

Breeding, cumflation, lactation, squirting, excessive cum, breast expansion, heat cycles, pussy expansion, sex addiction and hypersexuality, toxic dynamics, possessiveness, loss of intellect, free use, sex toys, weight gain, hentai logic!

Other kinks I enjoy:

Hucow, impregnation, hyperpreg, mind break, bondage, bimbofication, birthing, funnel feeding and forced drinking, pussy pumping, Master/slave dynamics, sub top/Dom bottom, aphrodisiacs, pussy stretching and prolapses, shapeshifting elements, a bit of creative anatomy, everything wet and swollen and juicy!

Limits: Cock expansion (a bit of growth is fine), underage, musk, filth, scat, blood, gore, incest, misogyny, furries, feet, vore, death, blueberry, balloon-style inflation, extreme hyper expansion of only one single body part. I prefer things to be somewhat proportional.

What's important to me is that, ultimately, my character is deeply enjoying what is being done to her. I'm not looking to roleplay full-on nonconsent or torture.

If this post made you feel anywhere from curious to excited, feel free to message me!

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u/feinslieb — 1 month ago