u/fitgirl015

Does anyone else hate good morning texts from POT SDs while in the pre-meet texting stage?

I always move the conversation over to text (i.e. Google Voice) shortly after we start messaging so we can discuss more ~details~. Usually those conversations are pretty productive and involve an exchange of valuable information. BUT I fucking hate when they text "good morning". 1. it just feels too intimate for someone i haven't even met yet and 2. it feels like they're trying to open the door for an all-day texting conversation which I will never do. I usually respond several hours later, partially due to my pure hatred of texting, but partially because I just don't want to give them too much of my time/energy pre-meeting and pre-allowance, and I want them to feel that so that there's a reason for them to actually take it to the next stage, because there are a lot of time wasters who will suck as much time as they can out of you for free.

Am I just overreacting? Am I reading the intentions wrong? Does this happen to you guys? Helppp

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u/fitgirl015 — 3 days ago