Non-monogamy over 50. Any other long-time couples navigating the ups and downs, ebbs and flows of being in a committed but non-monogamous relationship?

Wife 49F and I 57M been together 26 years. Married 24 of them. We were open to non-monogamy from the start. We still are but our attitude has dramatically changed over time.

I'm curious to hear from others over 50 who've been committed but also open for a long time. How has it gone for you and has your experience with NM changed over time?

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u/florida-karma — 9 days ago

MF4A Visiting NOLA in October. Need local advixe.

Middle-aged couple visiting NOLA in October for the Amyl & the Nitrates show and to hang with platonic besties. Staying close to the Quarter. We'll have one night to party hedonism style.

We could use some local intel.

We're aware of Colettes. We may go there if our ideal scenario doesn't exist.

We love subdued upscale bars and lounges where conversation and flirtation are possible. Upscale dance clubs are an okay alternative. Are there any spots like this that are known for couples meeting couples? Or couples meeting singles? We'd prefer to discover a flirty connection in a place like this rather than in a straight-up, in-your-face sex club and then take it back to the hotel.

Thanks for the intel in advance but not looking to schedule hookups from reddit so please don't bother with that.

u/florida-karma — 30 days ago

MF4A Visiting New Orleans in a few months. Need local advice.

Middle-aged married couple coming into town in a few months, staying near the Quarter for a few days for a concert and to hang out with platonic friends. We'll have one night only to party on our own, hedonism style.

If we wanted to party somewhere with the possible outcome of meeting someone else sexy (either a couple or single) to take back to the hotel to party where would that be? Are there local bars or clubs that are known hangouts for couples and the singles who like them? If there aren't hangouts for couples per se where do locals go to pick up ONS hotties? Not your basic frat-boy-away-from-college hurricane-mixing-machine hangout but upscale ladies and gentlemen calmly mixing kind of vibe.

Is Friday or Saturday night the better option for this?

We heard about a nude pool. Not quite sold on that based on what we heard.

We heard about Colettes. We might try that as a fallback but we're heavier on flirtation and conversation than in-your-face opportunism.

Thanks in advance. Happy hedonism.

u/florida-karma — 1 month ago

57/49 [MF4M] relocating to St Augustine FL. Looking for a fit hung bull for occasional kink after we settle in.

Real talk. Both fit, good looking especially her, very solid marriage. One of our kinks is getting an upscale hotel room and inviting a vgl, fit and hung friend to party with us. This is not a cuckold scenario. Husband will join in a bit but mostly he enjoys watching his wife lose herself going feral on our friend's cock. Preference for black men but not required. You must check all the boxes for a bull. A warm, easygoing personality is crucial.

u/florida-karma — 1 month ago

Serious question (OC pic to get attention)

What is it called when you really love watching your wife lose herself going completely feral with another guy's cock and then you reclaim her pussy totally afterward, almost ritually? No humiliation but absolute appreciation of the eroticism on display. Is that stag-vixen?

u/florida-karma — 1 month ago

MF4M - Is Colettes a good spot to pick up single guys?

Coming to town on October for a few days. Looking to pick up a good single guy or two for the Mrs while we party there. Is Colettes the spot for that or no?

Edit: thanks for the insight and replies

u/florida-karma — 2 months ago
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MF4M need a fit hung bull in Ocala

Must check all the boxes: tall, good looking, charming, chill, confident and hung. Availability is extremely limited so patience is a virtue.

u/florida-karma — 2 months ago