u/flyguy1600

Handsome and in shape professional guy. Looking for married woman only. Ideally, she will live within an hour drive of Chicago (preferably North or Northwest Suburbs of Chicago), up to Southeastern Wisco. I'm semi experienced at this, but I am not a serial affair searcher. In fact I believe I could never do this again, but the desire is just too strong again. However, I'm hopeful to find someone in a similar situation....someone who is sane, someone who will only meet someone cautious, safe and respectful after some trust is built.

I value honesty and transparency (I know, that sounds silly to me too considering we're both here, hopefully you understand).

I am not here for games. I will not lead you on. I want us to take a bit of time communicating (initially text, then move to actual speaking on the phone). I would like to exchange body photos rather soon, face pics once some level of trust is established. I generally have at least 2 days free during the week per month. Looking for someone who also can be free occasionally on a weekday. Lastly, I'm not a cheapskate, if and when I find a long term AP, I want you to know that. We all have challenges at home, we all have stress, but one thing that is important to me is my AP will never have to pay while we are together. I really hope a special lady reads this, and reaches out. I may not be quick to respond, I am not frantically checking reddit! But if you send a thoughtful message, and share a bit about yourself (where you live, age, what you're looking for), I will get back to you, thank you.

45, Handsome and in shape professional guy. Looking for married woman only. Ideally, she will live within an hour drive of Chicago (preferably North or Northwest Suburbs of Chicago), up to Southeastern Wisco. I'm semi experienced at this, but I am not a serial affair searcher. In fact I believe I could never do this again, but the desire is just too strong again. However, I'm hopeful to find someone in a similar situation....someone who is sane, someone who will only meet someone cautious, safe and respectful after some trust is built.

I value honesty and transparency (I know, that sounds silly to me too considering we're both here, hopefully you understand).

I am not here for games. I will not lead you on. I want us to take a bit of time communicating (initially text, then move to actual speaking on the phone). I would like to exchange body photos rather soon, face pics once some level of trust is established. I generally have at least 2 days free during the week per month. Looking for someone who also can be free occasionally on a weekday. Lastly, I'm not a cheapskate, if and when I find a long term AP, I want you to know that. We all have challenges at home, we all have stress, but one thing that is important to me is my AP will never have to pay while we are together. I really hope a special lady reads this, and reaches out. I may not be quick to respond, I am not frantically checking reddit! But if you send a thoughtful message, and share a bit about yourself (where you live, age, what you're looking for), I will get back to you, thank you.

45, Handsome and in shape professional guy. Looking for married woman only. Ideally, she will live within an hour drive of Chicago (preferably North or Northwest Suburbs of Chicago), up to Southeastern Wisco. I'm semi experienced at this, but I am not a serial affair searcher. In fact I believe I could never do this again, but the desire is just too strong again. However, I'm hopeful to find someone in a similar situation....someone who is sane, someone who will only meet someone cautious, safe and respectful after some trust is built.

I value honesty and transparency (I know, that sounds silly to me too considering we're both here, hopefully you understand).

I am not here for games. I will not lead you on. I want us to take a bit of time communicating (initially text, then move to actual speaking on the phone). I would like to exchange body photos rather soon, face pics once some level of trust is established. I generally have at least 2 days free during the week per month. Looking for someone who also can be free occasionally on a weekday. Lastly, I'm not a cheapskate, if and when I find a long term AP, I want you to know that. We all have challenges at home, we all have stress, but one thing that is important to me is my AP will never have to pay while we are together. I really hope a special lady reads this, and reaches out. I may not be quick to respond, I am not frantically checking reddit! But if you send a thoughtful message, and share a bit about yourself (where you live, age, what you're looking for), I will get back to you, thank you.

45, Handsome and in shape professional guy. Married looking for married woman only. Ideally, she will live within an hour drive of Chicago (preferably North or Northwest Suburbs of Chicago), up to Southeastern Wisco.

I value honesty and transparency (I know, that sounds silly to me too considering we're both here, hopefully you understand).

I am not here for games. I will not lead you on. I want us to take a bit of time communicating (initially text, then move to actual speaking on the phone). I would like to exchange body photos rather soon, face pics once some level of trust is established. I generally have at least 2 days free during the week per month. Looking for someone who also can be free occasionally on a weekday. Lastly, I'm not a cheapskate, if and when I find a long term AP, I want you to know that. We all have challenges at home, we all have stress, but one thing that is important to me is my AP will never have to pay while we are together. I really hope a special lady reads this, and reaches out. I may not be quick to respond, I am not frantically checking reddit! But if you send a thoughtful message, and share a bit about yourself (where you live, age, what you're looking for), I will get back to you, thank you.

45, Handsome and in shape professional guy. Married looking for married woman only. Ideally, she will live within an hour drive of Chicago (preferably North or Northwest Suburbs of Chicago), up to Southeastern Wisco.

I value honesty and transparency (I know, that sounds silly to me too considering we're both here, hopefully you understand).

I am not here for games. I will not lead you on. I want us to take a bit of time communicating (initially text, then move to actual speaking on the phone). I would like to exchange body photos rather soon, face pics once some level of trust is established. I generally have at least 2 days free during the week per month. Looking for someone who also can be free occasionally on a weekday. Lastly, I'm not a cheapskate, if and when I find a long term AP, I want you to know that. We all have challenges at home, we all have stress, but one thing that is important to me is my AP will never have to pay while we are together. I really hope a special lady reads this, and reaches out. I may not be quick to respond, I am not frantically checking reddit! But if you send a thoughtful message, and share a bit about yourself (where you live, age, what you're looking for), I will get back to you, thank you.

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45, 5' 11", 170 lbs, white professional guy. Married looking for married woman only. Ideally, my special lady will live within an hour drive of Chicago (preferably North or Northwest Suburbs of Chicago), up to Southeastern Wisconsin. I'm an attractive in shape guy, I live a healthy lifestyle.

I am not a serial long time AP! I have one prior experience with this, and I learned a lot from that one experience, particularly what I want this time around, and what I don't want. I value honesty and transparency (I know, that sounds silly to me too considering we're both here, hopefully you understand).

I am not here for games. I will not lead you on. I want us to take a bit of time communicating (initially text, then move to actual speaking on the phone). I would like to exchange body photos rather soon, face pics once some level of trust is established. I generally have at least 2 days free during the week per month. Looking for someone who also can be free occasionally on a weekday. Lastly, I'm not a cheapskate, if and when I find a long term AP, I want you to know that. We all have challenges at home, we all have stress, but one thing that is important to me is my AP will never have to pay while we are together. I really hope a special lady reads this, and reaches out. I may not be quick to respond, I am not frantically checking reddit! But if you send a thoughtful message, and share a bit about yourself (where you live, age, what you're looking for), I will get back to you.

45, 5' 11", 170 lbs, white professional guy. Married looking for married woman only. Ideally, my special lady will live within an hour drive of Chicago (preferably North or Northwest Suburbs of Chicago), up to Southeastern Wisconsin. I'm an attractive in shape guy, I live a healthy lifestyle. Because of that I prefer an attractive in shape woman. My preferred age range would be roughly 30 to 46 years old.

I am not a serial long time AP! I have one prior experience with this, and I learned a lot from that one experience, particularly what I want this time around, and what I don't want. I value honesty and transparency (I know, that sounds silly to me too considering we're both here, hopefully you understand).

I am not here for games. I will not lead you on. I want us to take a bit of time communicating (initially text, then move to actual speaking on the phone). I would like to exchange body photos rather soon, face pics once some level of trust is established. I generally have at least 2 days free during the week per month. Looking for someone who also can be free occasionally on a weekday. Lastly, I'm not a cheapskate, if and when I find a long term AP, I want you to know that. We all have challenges at home, we all have stress, but one thing that is important to me is my AP will never have to pay while we are together. I really hope a special lady reads this, and reaches out. I may not be quick to respond, I am not frantically checking reddit! But if you send a thoughtful message, and share a bit about yourself (where you live, age, what you're looking for), I will get back to you.