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So… married and 58. Starting experimenting with other guys about 5 years ago. Had a regular guy that I hooked up with once a week or so for a couple years. Started out as him just giving me head and that was all I ever imagined it to ever be.

Over the course of a couple years he introduced some rimming, and damn did I enjoy THAT, then a finger, then another finger, then a vibrator.

One day I’m at his place, he’s eating and fingering my ass and I feel something thicker going in my hole so i ask “is that your cock”. He said no, my thumb but I can use my cock”.

I had never even thought about getting fucked but his ass eating skills and his fingers had me sooooo horny that I told him I wanted to feel his cock.

So…. I got fucked and he came inside me. It was sooooo fucking good and I was so surprised at how much I enjoyed it. He has since retired and moved away so I’m without a regular playmate.

After that experience I started looking up prostate play and prostate orgasms. This opened ANOTHER DOOR for me and I need MORE prostate play! The “HANDS FREE” orgasm became a mission of mine. Mixed results so far but I thoroughly enjoy prostate stimulation.

I wish I could find a guy that has a fuck machine, I would love to try one. I would also love to try stimulating my prostate with some toys and then I would LOVE to try and cum hands free from getting fucked by a real cock again.

Anyone else have a story about becoming a bottom?? Anyone ever cum from getting fucked like that?

u/ftw55 — 2 days ago

MF4MF F

Anyone going to be in Angola tonight? 50’s couple looking for meet a couple or female. There is a Flamingo part tonight on crooked lake…. We’re going.

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u/ftw55 — 19 days ago

Advice / thoughts??

Was playing the other night and had myself right on the edge for prob a good 30 minutes but didn’t orgasm!

I mean RIGHT on the edge, felt like I was going to orgasm but it didn’t happen. I was using, among other toys, a dildo and kind of really hammering myself. It was amazing but I started getting tired and was soooooo close I ended up stroking and THEN had an orgasm. I couldn’t take it anymore and felt like I just had to cum.

Should I have taken a break and got back at it? Would that feeling finally end up as an orgasm? It was so intense I could hardly keep going!

Thoughts?

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u/ftw55 — 21 days ago

Do I keep going?

Recently, after about a year trying, I had my first HFO. It was a HFWO and it was effing amazing. After it happened I kind of packed it up and called it a night, mainly because it was the first time, I was getting tired and MISSION ACCOMPLISHED lol.

Here’s my question. Under normal circumstances/ sex I can rarely go for a round 2 and considering it was a wet one…. Do people achieve another one, if I were to just keep going would I keep on having orgasms or does the one and done apply here too??

I know everyone is different but curious of how it goes for others.

Appreciate the feedback and it’s this sub that got me there to start with. Sooo much great info on here!

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u/ftw55 — 28 days ago

I did it, finally, WOW and thanks to this sub!

I’ve been messing around with prostate play for about a year. This sub has been terrific, with toy suggestions, positions etc.

The re-wiring posts were probably the most important lesson for me. I had to learn how to concentrate on JUST the feelings down there and then how to basically ignore my penis and focus on the anal part alone. Easier said than done but it all paid off last night.

Used 3 different toys over the course of about an hour, but the Aneros was what ultimately what got me there. Combination of the Aneros, my fingers and some hip movements and some good smoke led to an amazing orgasm, without ever touching my dick.

It was a pretty intense, HFWO. Unlike anything I’ve experienced in the past. I knew I’ve been getting close in previous tries but last night I FINALLY GOT THERE.

THANKS TO ALL ON HERE!

Can’t wait to do it again!!!

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u/ftw55 — 1 month ago

C4C / f

Are there ever any meet and greet events in Fort Wayne? How would we possibly find out about any events like that in our area?

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u/ftw55 — 1 month ago

Anyone hosting in Fort Wayne?

56 married vers looking for a playmate for once in a while. Can’t host, looking for weekdays, like lunch hour.

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u/ftw55 — 1 month ago

Looking in Fort Wayne

56 mwm looking for a host for regular meet ups. I’m more of a dom top but down to bottom if planets align! lol

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u/ftw55 — 2 months ago