u/gameboy_5000

I just want to have sex and maybe connect afterwards but mostly have sex and it is so frustrating. I have use grindr, sniffies, and all the apps and it has been an annoying experience. flakes, talking too much, and constantly asking for pics. I'm wondering what's the point. I though we go on here to hookup? I even went to bath houses and cruise clubs hoping that would be better, and sadly it is not. While they aren't asking for pics there is just so. much. talking. Like I dont mind a good conversation, but that is not what I am here for. Lets talk afterwards, plus in my experience they more they talk the less likely they are to do it. Now at the Bathhouses I have seen people hookup and spend hours talking and bonding and thats something I would be down for, but sadly I dont get that. After my hookups they usually go on to the next, which is also why I don't like the conversation beforehand. At this point I dont know what to do besides paying for it.