u/goddesslunalove777

I’m currently on a gender discovery journey and I’m finding myself wondering how I can incorporate more of my genuine self into the play space. Most of the domes that I see are high femmes.

My two questions are is there space for an alternative dom style/gender presentation in this world? And what titles/honorifics could I use?

I gave findom a try about a year ago. I threw my whole self into it—bought books, set up accounts, had my little photoshoots, and crafted a domme persona that I thought would be invincible. I felt pretty fucking invincible.
Then I got lost somewhere in the sea of beautiful women ready to ruin men. I think I joined right after one of the big TikTok surges and tried in vain to find a place for myself outside of the hype.
Yet I’m drawn to this world—to the thrill, the fire it sets in my blood, the mischief of it.
Should I try again?
Is it worth risking the disappointment?