u/habidasheryhabit

Do you influence or choose what is and is not appropriate for your wife to wear outside the home or in front of anyone besides yourself? If you do, do you approve specific items individually or just have general guidelines and standards of modesty or femininity that you expect her to hold to? Do you feel like your standards are more, less, or equally modest to the broader culture where you live?

My Husband is returning from a 3 day trip and His plane just landed. I have been sick all day with a cold but I'm still putting on a touch of makeup and a pretty slip and some perfume for Him to come home to me. I've lit a candle and set the mood and vibe of the room with soft lights and a fire. His trip was rough and I want to make sure that His welcome back to His castle is everything inviting, peaceful, and relaxing. And to relieve the pressure of having been away for 3 days. I'm so blessed to keep His home and the house is noticeably less homey without the presence of my King.

Tonight my Husband and I have dinner reservations with his boss. I'm just finishing my beauty routine and my manicure to make sure I am at my absolute most put together, attractive but still modest, and ladylike. I know that part of my job as His wife is to reflect positively on him by maintaining myself to a high standard. I will do my best to be respectful, polite, and charming when spoken to at dinner with his boss and not to distract or disagree with anyone at the table. I know that being a well behaved, well dressed, respectful, helpful, obedient, and attractive wife is good for His reputation and reflects positively on his leadership abilities and character and that this is another aspect of how as a housewife, I support my Husband's career and goals.