Erection Quality and Length advice
I’ve been reading about PE for a while and finally decided I’m interested in giving it a serious try.
Part of what pushed me toward it was a conversation with my girlfriend. I’d been curious how to bring the subject up without making it weird, and eventually the opportunity came up while we were talking pretty openly about penis size and her previous experiences.
She admitted that she would genuinely like it if I could penetrate her a little deeper than I currently can, and there are a couple positions she likes where she feels I’m slightly too short. When I asked what she thought would make the difference, she estimated roughly another inch.
That gave me the opening to mention PE. She was supportive, although understandably skeptical that meaningful gains are actually possible. Her attitude was basically, “If you want to try it, go for it.”
Current measurements:
BPEL: 6”
Mid-shaft erect circumference: 6”
Girth has never really been a concern for me. My girlfriend and previous partners have actually complimented it, so I’m not particularly interested in chasing major girth gains.
My long-term fantasy target would be somewhere around 7–7.5” BPEL, while maintaining roughly my current proportions or perhaps gaining a little girth along the way. I realize 1–1.5” of length is a substantial goal and could take a long time, assuming it’s achievable for me at all.
However, erection quality is actually my #1 priority.
I’ve had some problems with ED, particularly losing firmness while switching positions. Tadalafil has worked very well for me, and changing some masturbation habits has also helped, but once you’ve had erection problems they can get into your head.
So my priorities are basically:
Erection quality, first
Length, extremely close second
Girth, distant third
Put another way, I would rather have my current 6” cock getting hard like I did at 20 than somehow build a porn cock that only works at 70%.
For equipment, I’m interested in starting with a pump plus some form of length device (I'm leaning towards stretcher). I'd like to spend no more than $150 starting out.
I’m not looking for a miracle routine or expecting an inch in three months. I understand that PE, is a marathon not a sprint.
Given my measurements and priorities, what would you recommend for a beginner?