I remember years ago there was lipstick alley about some pretty well known high end providers and it's always left a bitter taste in my mouth. I also felt shaded by a provider recently and I know I'm acting a bit naive but like what's the energy. It clearly shows bitterness and idk it's already a hard industry we all share similar experiences why bash another girl for just surviving. There's enough clients to go around.
I just feel like people rely on the occurrence of fake profiles to undercut actual providers. Onlyfans requires an ID to join and also tryst. That's not to say people do not abuse it. But if someone is charging 200 dollars you know probably wouldn't you kind of are putting yourself in a situation you could have avoided. If you don't see providers who ask for deposit or screening yeah... you probably will deal with some shit. I just think bad experiences outweighing the safety precautions providers deal with is unacceptable. I also think providers should not be influenced by clients who may have ulterior motives: market manipulation, normalizing unsafe practices, and putting the control of the industry in their hands. It's better to go part time if you can't enforce your safety precautions. That 500 dollars with no screening is a higher risk getting a cashier job or a server part time.
Just moved to Stamford and I want to turn my apartment kind of into a dungeon. What are the best sites for BDSM. I do mostly massage and tryst seems like a hassle when it comes to two accounts. But if that's the best site let me know as well!