u/heater198712

Hi everyone in this wonderful community,

We’re a loving couple (me 39M, her 38F) and I’ve been a huge fan of this subreddit for a while. I wanted to share our story and maybe get some encouragement or advice from others who have been through similar phases.

My wife is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. She’s incredibly fit, has done a ton of pelvic floor training after our three kids, and her body is strong and sexy. After the births she developed a really noticeable gape, which I absolutely adore. She also had a posterior vaginal prolapse that didn’t bother her much functionally, but she didn’t find it visually appealing at first. We’ve always been very open with each other about sex and our desires. I’m completely obsessed with stretching her beautiful pussy – big dildos, fisting, going deeper and wider. She loves the attention, the intense feeling of being taken by me, and the pleasure it brings us both. We’ve talked many times about wanting to go further together, even towards a more permanent gape.

For a long time we both really enjoyed it. But recently she’s become hesitant. She wants it less often and has developed a strong fear of uterine prolapse (even though her recovery after the last pregnancy was excellent, her muscles are very strong, her cervix sits high, and I see zero signs of any real risk). I’ve tried to reassure her and even suggested we talk to her gynecologist together for professional advice, but she finds that too intimate and doesn’t want to discuss our stretching with the doctor.

I completely respect her feelings and never want to push her. Right now I’m holding back myself because I know about her worries, and I hate that this beautiful thing we both loved is creating a little mental block for her. We still have great sex and intimacy, but I miss our stretching sessions and the deep connection they gave us.

I’m hoping some of you here can relate – especially wives/partners who had similar fears after kids or prolapse concerns, or husbands who gently helped their partners overcome worries like this. How did you work through the anxiety? Any tips for reassurance that worked for you? Or just positive stories about enjoying loose, well-stretched pussies long-term while staying safe and happy?

We both want to continue this journey together when she feels ready. She enjoys feeling desired and “taken” in that way, and I want her to feel completely confident and empowered again.

Thanks for reading and for this supportive space. Any kind words or experiences are very welcome ❤️