r/loosepussyloverschat

I mean. The fetish for guys is more (or just) about the pussy?

Idk, something about "saving one hole tighter"?

Because I started my journey to stretch like 3 years ago , and to be frankly I just always had natural loose holes. I was terrified of anal when younger and then after that, it was weeks until my first fisting.

That goes for pussy too, but I just feel, if I push myself I'll achieve more stretching on my ass. I love it so much, but I just don't know if I'm "ruining myself"...

I have no tight holes l left (other than my mouth maybe?) so should I be worried or proud?

I know it's dumb question but I'm just 23 and already ruined, imagine in 5-10 years lol

I've just been on holiday with my husband and came across an interesting side effect of having a huge pussy. It seems I'm not able to stay stood on the bottom of the pool without starting to float up 😅. And when swimming I seem to just stay boyant. I'm quite a big girl but never had this before taking my huge toys and double fisting. Anyone else had any experiences like this? I'm curious lol

SEND HELP YALL.

I have been on this stretching journey for idk DAYS 🤣 the constant need to stuff something just to see if I can take it and hold it is well….. DRIVING me insane. Never in my life did I ever imagine I’d wreck my pussy ALL by myself INTENTIONALLY 🤣 if im being honest I used to think the whole fisting and stretching scene was just ewwwww and weird and holy hell I LOVE BEING WEIRD 🤣🤣🤣🤣 anyways end fuckin rant 🤣🤣🤣

I want *my naturally tight holes to be loose and slack.

I have naturally tight holes to match my tight, petite body. However, it’s my dream to have loose, slack holes. Especially a loose pussy. The idea of being so used and stretched that I’m loose and gaping turns me on so much.

I’ve started using a thick pussy plug for hours each day. I am making progress on some large bad dragons. I also practice reverse kegels and pump my pussy. My husband can fit his whole fist in me at this point. I have some loose pelvic floor muscles naturally and have some heaviness already. The gape I get after stretching paired with the loose muscles I already have make me squirt and leak while I play. I can’t wait to stay open, unfortunately I still tighten up pretty quickly. I do notice I don’t have to warm up as much to take my big toys though.

Anyway I’ve enjoyed this community as part of my stretching journey so thought I’d say hello!

Would love to start stretching my wife out. Not sure how to even approach it with her. We have a couple sleeves that we’ve used. It’s been a little while since tho. She doesn’t ever ask for them. Rarely really even is open to using it. I’m not sure how to slowly approach the idea? I’m sure she would be totally turned off by a “loose gaping pussy”

Posted here a few days ago but got a little embarrassed and deleted my post. 30F, have been stretching for fun during sex for a while but now seriously working on stretching myself daily to achieve a permanent gape. Hoping to achieve a permanently gaped and very loose pussy. I can definitely tell/ see there is a difference- When I squat I can see what kinda looks like my cervix(?) and i dont need a warm up anymore to take dick or dildo. Some things I have been curious about the more I learn.

1. I’ve never done any birthing play but very interested what are some cost effective things I could try birthing to see if I enjoy it?
2. Prolapse… this is one of the main things I have questions about. It seems a lot of people here enjoy playing with their prolapsed cervix and even try to achieve that intentionally. Is this a medical emergency that would need surgery to fix? I’m not sure if it could just be “popped back in” so to speak or if it happened would it warrant an er trip? Some people answered some questions before but i guess i’m still a bit confused.
3. I’m okay with permanent changes to my pussy I just want to know what to expect. I hear so much about prolapse and bladder leakage (id be okay with this) that I just want to know what to expect or be prepared for.

TIA!

Omg so I’m 36 and all my life I’ve been pretty “plain Jane” I guess you can say I guess. But for the past 4 months I’ve had an obsession with object insertion 🤣 small energy shot bottles, medicine bottles, travel toiletries…. 12oz 16.9 and now I’m at 20 oz….. I just took a a fresh picture of my pussy annnnnnnd the difference from just a week ago is CRAZY…. I want to be upset that I’ve wrecked my pussy BUT I can’t because it felt so good 🤣 please tell me I’m not the only one lol

My wife, early 30s, has a big hairy pussy. I’ve always used big dildos on her as she at one point in time, several years ago, had a BBC porn fetish, and was a believer in bigger is better (despite only having been with me).

I am average size, a good size even, but still I’ve used sleeves etc on her. This was always pushed by me. Sometimes she’s required convincing / persuasion.

Now I don’t even try to pleasure her with my penis. I fuck her with only the head / tip of my penis so that she doesn’t feel me and then asks for fingers almost right away. I’ve done this to reinforce the psychological element that my penis is redundant, not big or good enough to fill her up. Seems to have worked and this is now accepted. She thinks my full cock is inside her.

Our normal sex now is, my cock, 4 fingers, and pushing down and up on her perineum with great force. Not even thrusting, just up and down stretching out her bottom floor.

She can’t even tell the difference, even when I go limp, or fall out, I just keep pushing down on her perineum. This is what sex is for her now I guess…

Hi guys! I haven't been active recently, life has been a bitch, but I have good news! I bit the bullet and bought myself a new dildo, it's 3.3 inches in diameter (10.2 inch circumference). It's a decent size up from my current biggest (2.8 inches in diameter), I am beyond excited!
It'll arrive within the next week, and I'll update as soon as I can ;)

my man and I had quite the night last night. we went out for a few drinks with friends and he was giving me that look all night that I just knewwwww we were going to be playing when we got home and I could not wait!

literally could not wait… on the car ride home I took my pants off and we started stretching me. I did much of the work since he was driving but he also was reaching over into my warmed up pussy. came once right there in the car, I almost had my whole fist in myself!

got home and then the real fun began. I was on my side taking his fist and I felt him rubbing around my ass then slipping a finger in. I felt so full and so turned on I begged him to put his dick in my ass while he was fisting me. we weren’t sure it would fit with all the pressure in my pussy but I wanted it so bad I pushed my ass right on him and in it went! we both came soooo hard it was so sexy to be filled in both holes I really can’t believe it. definitely a first for us!! I loved the look in his eyes he looked so amazed and feral haha

feeling proud of what my body is becoming able to do! xoxox

Curious to see if anyone has done so, and if so, what's the experience like? Side effects, good or bad?
One day I'd love to say I can take a 5 inch diameter toy.

I grew up in a fairly conservative environment where everyone would always preach how you are supposed to stay a virgin and only have sex with one man. I've always been told I need to make sure my pussy is tight so that men can enjoy it.

This could never be it for me. I want a loose cunt. I want to be able to spread my legs and know I can fit anything inside. I want a loose gaping hole for a pussy, a hole that can only satisfy multiple dicks at a time. I wanna be able to see my gape just by opening my legs 🤤

I am still a "virgin" but I'm already trying to stretch myself open. I wanna be ruined and have a ruined gaping hole 😵‍💫

I’m 25f been stretching my pussy for 6 years and my loose hole is so needy, it literally aches to be spread wide open and be told how big it is I think showing off how big and loose my hole is actually turns me on more then the stretching it 🙈 whenever a guy comes over to stretch me I always love to show him how wide open I can spread watching him look deep inside me drives me crazy!!! I also love being told how loose I feel while taking cock even better if you give me a big stretch first 😈

wish i could. had my first experience where i was too loose for a guy but i literally don’t care. i deeply enjoy having a gaping maw for a pussy

Looking for a toy that is essentially like a fleshlight, but made to be inserted inside the vagina and then fucked with a penis/dildo. Kind of like a cock sleeve, but it goes inside the woman instead of on the man.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions

Last night my wife was really up for getting stretched. Started with 4 fingers and she was pushing back hard. I added some coconut oil lube (new since the first fisting) and got the hand past the knuckles. As she pushed toward orgasm I got into the wrist and just stayed there playing with her a spot until she came so hard it hurt my hand. This is amazing given my hand circumference is roughly 11-12”

The first time she was so sensitive that I didn’t finish but this time she wanted me to finish. The warm water feeling was epic and when I finished my cum just pulsed out of her because she was so loose.

This is maybe a weekly activity. We like to mix up the variety in our sessions and so this is in the rotation now!

I feel like more often than not, it’s the boyfriend or husband who has to work up the courage to tell their partner that they are into this, and then try to encourage their partner to try it out. Are there any ladies out there who faced the reverse situation? (I.E. you were already into stretching and he wasn’t yet) How did the conversation go? Of course, this would be a dream scenario for guys on this sub but I can still imagine it being a daunting conversation if you don’t know how he’s going to react.

Hello!
Does anyone here ever play with other men outside of your primary relationship? For example, you and your partner stretch and participate in the hotwife lifestyle?

If so, how do you usually go about it? Do you tell the third about the stretching, have them participate and stretch you too, or keep some of it between you and your partner?

I’m especially curious if anyone ever stretches (or gets stretched) prior to a third coming over and doesn’t say anything about it… just to see how they react when they feel how soft, open, and used your pussy already is.

My partner and I are considering this and would love to hear others experience and feedback! Would love to hear how you handle it and what their reactions have been.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

If you’re into it, I know not all are. My husband has been exploring this idea lately with me. I’m not really into it, although I tried for his pleasure. We do a lot of anal, and he tries to put a thumb in there with his penis, it hurts so I can’t go through with it. And he tries to fist my vagina- 4 fingers and I can’t take anymore. But I don’t want anything more than his penis so I personally don’t understand. Could someone who is into this explain it to me please? All he tells me is “it’s hot” but I want to hear more. Educate me please!

My wife and I tried fisting yesterday. She was completely comfortable, with no pain or bleeding.
I initially tried getting my thumb in as well, but it felt like there wasn’t enough depth to go further, so I kept four fingers inside instead. With four fingers, I could already reach and touch her cervix.

Her doctor has previously mentioned that she has a low-lying uterus. Does that explain why I can reach her cervix so easily, and does reaching it mean we’ve basically reached the end of the vaginal canal?

Thanks in advance :)