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MWM, early 50s. I posted a story here today and one of the questions that was asked was where do I find these hot encounters?

Feel free to judge. The year after I was married to my ex, the sex literally vanished to maybe once every couple of months. We were both young no children and should’ve been having sex multiple times a day.

At the time I flew through the airlines, and also flew in the reserves. I traveled all over the world and experienced A LOT of sex, both when I was single and we were married. when we first got married, I wanted it to be just us. I did not like begging for sex, and could’ve done things differently. Regardless, I started cheating on her earlier on.

We lived in the Dallas area at the time, and there are literally hundreds of Asian massage parlors. I had my regular spots and I became a known customer. I travel to Central South America often which was a blast. I also discovered craigslist in the section where couples were looking for a single man. This opened up a whole New World to me.

I did not realize how many married men wanted to watch their wives be with another man. It was almost like shooting fish in a barrel. I was in my early 30s, in good shape, consider good looking and normal. I would find couples in the cities I flew into and would meet them for drinks. We would usually end up back at my hotel room.

It was here that I experienced most of my bi curiosity. And most of the ads, if it said, the male was open minded, it meant he wanted to suck and jerk. My weakness was DVP. When another cock is rubbing up against yours in a tight hole, it wouldn’t be long before we were shooting ropes on each other inside of her.

I was on every adult alternative lifestyle website imaginable. I was being very reckless. If it was an escort, I would normally wear a condom. If it was a married couple, highly unlikely and rarely did they ask.

I met a insatiable early 50s flight attendant was going through a divorce. She had an incredible body, and I met her on one of the websites. After a two hour session of porn style sex, we were drinking wine and talking about our past. She told me since she filed for divorce a few months ago, she had slept with 70 men. A large lump in my throat developed.

I was convinced I caught something I did not want. A few weeks later I was tested and tested regularly after that. I still continue to play, but with protection, I cannot tell you how many women I have slept with. It’s in the hundreds. I cannot tell you how many couples I have been with. It’s in the dozens.

When it comes to playing with guys, I’ve never done anal, or anything intimate like make out. For me, it was strictly jerking, and once a friendship was established, oral. So here I am today. Early 50s and remarried. I’m married to a younger woman who actually enjoys sex. Have I slipped and gone to a massage parlor for a handy? Yes. Have I had a jerk bud or two? Yes. Nothing like I was in the past, but get the occasional itch.

MWM, early 50s, mostly straight, love women, but get the occasional itch to relax and learn hand. 15 years ago when I was married to my ex in a sexist marriage, I regularly saw female massage therapist that offered a happy ending or more. I have become a regular with Samantha and we developed a client relationship. She had a tasteful office that was very discreet.

She was a thicker girl, but definitely easy on the eyes. Once we became good friends, the massage lasted maybe 15 to 20 minutes and then the real fun began. We will talk about our sexual past, our likes and dislikes while in the heat of the moment. Samantha was bisexual, and I told her about my past few experiences with jerk buds. I only had a few of them then, but nothing long-term. In fact, they were not that good.

The first one ended very quickly, and we were both very nervous. The second one was OK, but it was a one and done. She told me that one of her clients had also expressed his curiosity. Talking about this got her very hot and I ended up fucking her on the massage table. I had a burner phone at the time and I gave her my number. She said that she would reach out to Steve and coordinate everything.

About a week went by and she text me that he was interested. A few days later, we all met that morning at her office. Steve was a few years older than me. You could definitely feel the nervous tension, that sexual anticipation. Samantha was definitely in control and called the shots.

We all got naked and Samantha lay on her table. She had a bottle of baby oil and we began to cover her body. She begin getting as hard at the same time. It wasn’t long before we were fully erect. She took my hand and guided it to his cock. He then reached over and began jerking me.

Samantha told Steve to get on the table. We both began massaging him as he was grabbing both of us. Before he was able to blow his load, I told Samantha to get on top of him.

Up to this point, we had always used a condom. I guided his cock into her and he grabbed onto her hips. I got behind Samantha and laid my cock on top of his to help me guide it into her pussy. This was my first bareback, DVP.

Steve and I did not last long. In about two minutes, we had both whipped down our dicks and began shooting ropes on each other. Samantha told us that she had not had an orgasm yet.

Steve and I both began licking her and so she had a solid climax. Of course, post nut clarity began to fill my head. I could not believe what just happened. This happened a few more times. Each time got better.

MWM, early 50s. Met my first jerk bud in my late 20s. It was not the best experience. It was both our first time. We both shot our load fast. PNC sat in and I left pretty quick, thinking it wasn’t for me.

Fast forward a few years when Craigslist was a thing. I was in my early 30s and work had me traveling frequently. I would stay at nice places and I was in much better shape. I soon discovered the section for couples wanting meet a guy. This was my go to for at least 8-9 years. In the beginning, it baffled me how many men wanted to see their hot wife with another guy. I’ve been with quite a few couples.

The encounters varied, anything from the husband watching me with his wife to full participation, which I enjoyed. Because they were mostly one night stands, I used protection. I then met Rick and Cristie. The were both in their late 40s. She was a very attractive lady. I became their regular and when that happened, I went bareback. So here begins the transition from MFM to getting comfortable with a solo jerk bud.

Now on almost every encounter, DVP happened. What an mind blowing feeling of having your cock in a tight hole with another cock. They were my first time to do this with two raw cocks. Talk about a sensation. Then to top it off with Rick shooting his load before me. The feeling of his semen all over my dick was sensory overload and within seconds, I joined him in pumping her with my load.

We became good friends and activities that some would call bi were part of the fun. If I fell out Rick would put me back in. Rick enjoyed eating his wife’s pussy while I would fuck her. DVP happened in every encounter. We would paint each others cock with cum.

A year later I met another couple. I let my little head do the thinking that night and went bareback. It was during DVP when he was underneath her and I was behind. He grabbed my ass to hang onto something. Within a few seconds he removed them, thinking I didn’t like it. I placed his hands back on my ass and he smiled. A few days later he asked if I wanted to come over again. He then asked if I had ever done anything with a guy. I told him about my first encounter with. He was curious and wanted to try a few things.

We agreed to meet about an hour prior before his girlfriend arrived. We lay in bed, stroking each other. It was a slow paced, ball fondling, verbal session, talking about how he enjoyed feeling my cock against his. We both came, cleaned up and chatted about. When his girlfriend arrived, we felt a lot more comfortable with our cocks sliding on top of one another, grabbing each other and really getting involved. I was about to cum, pulled out of her and he jerked me off.

Since then, I’ve had a few more MFM encounters, and most of them had some sort of bi play.

MWM, early 50s, love women. Sex with the wife is good. So why do I enjoy having a jerk bud….. multiple reasons but the main one is the simplicity of the relationship. I normally buds with other married guys. We meet, we jerk, we leave. I help him and he helps me.

There is no romance, no buildup, no complications. Does my dick get hard on the way to his place knowing what is about to happen. Of course! Typical session is we get naked, we lube each other, we stroke, we cum we make small talk and we make plans for next time.

I go home calm, happy and in a good mood. If my wife is in the mood that evening and I had my pipes cleaned earlier, I am super horny that night and give it to her the way she needs it.

From reading other stories, I know most men’s sex drive is higher than their wives. For you married guys that have a discreet bud, what are your reasons………..

MWM, early 50s, straight but enjoy my bro bonding time with a bud and stroking each other. After reading a lot of stories on here, I guess I was a late bloomer for my first jerk bud experience. I was 27 and had a MFM experience but not a jerk bud moment. I was definitely curious what it was like to make another cock cum with my hands.

Back then, yahoo personals was a thing. I met Jason. He was also late 20s, lived by himself in an apartment and was also a first time curious guy. We clicked and we decided to meet at his place. The entire way over to his place was nerve racking, but of course the little head was doing the thinking. I had built up in my mind that we would have take our time, it would be relaxing, maybe get two orgasms. Not the case.

Jason was friendly, just as nervous but determined to go through with it. After talking for about five minutes, we got undressed on his couch and he got some lube. We both lasted thirty seconds before we came. Did it feel good? Yes but PNC soon set in and I left soon after. We never spoke to each other after that evening. How’s was y’all’s first time?

MWM, early 50s, sane normal guy. Love women. I started to become a little curious in my late 20s about jerking with a bud. I met Steve on yahoo personals who also wanted to explore. Needless to say, it was both our first time. We jerked each other to completion and once PNC sat in, I left. I didn’t really enjoy the experience as much as I thought I would because of nerves. I basically chocked it up to as a bad experience and put it behind me.

A few years later I met my ex wife. We were married for seven years. After about year three, sex became a chore for her and she just was not into it…. or me. Regardless, this is when I began looking for other outlets. The occasional Asian massage with a happy ending was my go to. I met and got involved with several married couples for MFM. During these moments, I found myself very comfortable in situations other guys would consider gay. I enjoy DVP and eating pussy while the other guy fucks her. Hey, it’s all fun!

It was during this time I became more comfortable with the idea of a jerk bud. Two guys watching porn, talking dirty and stroking each other. I wanted something very specific. They needed to be married, no more than ten years older, somewhat in shape, and not engaging in risky behavior with multiple guys. This was a needle in a haystack. Back in the Craigslist days, it seemed like all guys wanted to suck and fuck. This wasn’t for me.

It was about my fifth month of looking I started talking to Rob. He was nine years older, married and lived in my city. For the next couple of weeks we kept a dialogue going and we wanted pretty much the same thing. To get together when our schedules synced and jerk each other.

Rob sent me a pic and I began to panic. Rob was my next door neighbor. I know his wife. We see each other every day. My wife knows his wife. I could have ended it right there and he would have never known. Of course my little head was doing the thinking and I sent him my pic and said “small world “.

Rob called me immediately and began to laugh. This was a relief and still awkward. He said Jill just left the house and invited me over. I told my wife I was going over for a while. He opened the front door and was smirking. We both had a good laugh and sat in the living room. We talked about why we were doing this, past experiences. Now Robs sex life was good. He has had a few buds in the past and had his wife’s permission. He was shocked when I told him the problems I was having.

After twenty minutes of talking, he put on the porn and broke out the lube. We both got naked and began stroking. He hand wandered to my cock and my hand was on his. This experience was different than the first time. I was still a little nervous but so turned on. We talked about his wife, what we like. Before long, we were shooting semen on our stomachs.

I asked him if he was going to tell his wife. He said yes. I couldn’t look her in the eye the next time. Next time was the following day. She smiled at me as she was walking out the door. She was off running errands. Rob and I immediately started jerking. I would get home at 4pm. Rob worked from home. My wife would get home at 5pm. That gave us normally 50 minutes of play. Then I would get back home and greet my wife.

It was around month two of our new relationship that we agreed we were not seeing other guys. The porn he put on this time was a mmf. The scene was a woman and guy sucking a guy. Without asking, Rob went down on me. I didn’t last long. His mouth was on me for maybe a minute before I gave him warning. He began to jerk me to a great orgasm. I returned the favor.

My ex was making me orgasm once every couple of months. Rob was making me cum 1-2 a day. It was a sad situation but felt amazing. After seven years of marriage, we divorced. I told Rob the day she filed. He told me to come over. His wife was waiting in the bedroom for me. What an experience! I lived with my ex for the next two months until the divorce was final. Rob and His wife helped me get through a difficult spot.

MWM, early 50s, straight, love women but enjoy the occasional bud time of lending a hand. Over the years I have had the occasional bud. Nothing crazy. Kick back and stroke until we shoot.

I was married to my ex and was as the beginning of our sexless phase. I would visit the occasional Asian massage for a handy, but wanted something more discreet. I got on Craigslist and created an ad for another married guy wanting a bud. Within a few days, I met Rob. He was married, a few years older than me, and lived close by.

We decided to trade pics and I got very nervous. Rob was my next door neighbor. Our wives are friends. We see each other almost every day in the yard. I could end everything right there and never send my pic and just play it cool. He would never know. My little head got the best of me and I sent my pic and said “small world”.

Within five minutes I received a call from Rob with him laughing. That calmed my nerves and he said Jill was gone for a few hours. I wasted no time in going over. We chatted for twenty minutes about the craziness of what just happened, why we were doing this, our wives. He had no idea what I was going through. He had a great sex life but like me, enjoyed watching porn with another cock in his hand.

As soon as we began talking sex, he began rubbing himself. I took off my pants and told him to get some oil. By the time he got back, I was naked on the couch. He got undressed, squirted lube on my cock and his and we began rubbing. We would comment on what we were watching, sex with his wife. Because there was no sex with mine, he wanted to hear what I want to do to his wife.

We both got verbal. It had been so long since someone handled my cock the way he did. Within minutes I shot my load and then Rob. We bask in the moments after, massaging balls, rubbing heads. I asked when Jill would be home. He said we had plenty of time. Now our hands were a mixture of semen and lube. It wasn’t long before Rob and I were hard again. I laid back on his couch while Rob got on top. The pressure of his body on top of mine while we slid back and forth on each other made us cum quick. I did a quick rinse off and walked 20 feet back to my house.

Neither wife suspected a thing because we would often hang out in the garage. For the next two years, we saw each other almost every day. It was around month two of us being buds when he asked me if I had any other buds. I told him no and he then said he wanted a mutual agreement. We both did not want to bring anything home we couldn’t get rid of and we enjoyed what we had.

It was after that chat, I knew our activities would increase. I went over that evening and without asking, he began sucking my cock. Well, I lasted not long. It was my turn. This was my first time. I grabbed his dick and began sucking. Rob prepared me and told me he was about to explode.

I began jerking him and watched his stomach become a gooey mess.

This lasted two years. My wife eventually filed for divorce and I told Rob. Rob then told me that Jill had known all along what we do. I was very embarrassed when he first told me and panic set in. He said Jill would never say anything. He told me that when they would have sex, my name came up regularly and he would talk about MFM with her. She said not while he was married. It was the day I told him that Jill was waiting for me.

I thought I was going over just to see Rob. He was sucking me and Jill came into the room. She and Rob took turns. We all went into the bedroom and spent the next two hours filling her. A few months later I was divorced and she got the house. I saw those two often until I moved for work. Rob made me cum more than anyone ever had and his wife was a willing partner.

I’m remarried. Sex is good but do miss having a bud. If anyone is in Oklahoma, holler!

51, 5’11, 200, dd free, sane, discreet. Love women. Do enjoy the occasional jerk bud. Looking for another married or attached guy who can get together 1-2 a week to lube up, stroke, shoot ropes and back to our lives.

Married, 50, dd free, straight, discreet regular guy. Looking for another MWM for safe play. Not into anal, kissing. Looking for a bud for mutual jerk.

MWM, early 50s, love women, but enjoy the occasional time. I have to jerk with a bud. I especially enjoy milking another cock. When I say milking, I give that cock the attention it needs for an hour….. multiple ruined orgasms, edging, pre-cum dripping down constantly, the milkee gripping the bed and begging for me to finish them off, giving attention to the balls and taint.

Rob contacted me last week and said he’d be in town for a few days and staying in downtown. Rob is married, late 50s, and shares a similar store to all the other guys I milk. His sex life is diminished at home and he has sex with his wife, maybe once a month. He had a few buds in the past, but it was during his college days. I could tell that he was very nervous that needed his cock properly drained.

We agreed to meet at the hotel bar and we had a drink. From outward appearances, we are both your typical middle-aged guys that you would never suspect enjoy jerking with another guy. We talked about our wives, our backgrounds and what we enjoy. After about 30 minutes, we decided to head up to his room.

I told Rob to get completely naked and lay back on the bed. I took out a bottle of baby oil and drenched his cock and balls. When he took off his pants, his cock flipped out, Already hard. I could tell he was wanting this. Rob was a good size. Very thick with a mushroom head. But that is not what drew my attention.

Rob had the biggest balls. As he laid back in the bed, I immediately went to work on those. I spent a solid 15 minutes, making sure those were well taken care of with the occasional finger, massaging his taint. Rob was leaking all over the place, ready for me to show some attention to his rod.

I took hold of his cock in one hand, and rub the head with the palm of my hand. I told him to be verbal with me and he was. Within a minute, he said he was about to cum. I’m backed off, and watched his cock twitch. We played this game back-and-forth, every few minutes he was about to explode and I would back off. By this time, he is begging me to finish him..

I tightened my grip and slowly begin jerking. I let him have it this time. Rob began shooting ropes onto his chest. His cock is now a combination of sweat, oil, and cum. My paste did not stop. I received great pleasure watching my milkee at the most intense moments, begging me to stop to continue at the same time.

Rob fight through the intensity and settle down. His cock is a semi rigid piece of meat at this point. I let him catch his breath. I picked up where I left off. Round two is not about teasing, but about achieving a second orgasm. He is watching porn on his laptop, well, I am getting him hard. It took a while, but he was very verbal telling me where to touch him. I got that second round out of him in the ropes were just as big as the first time.

I cleaned up, we chatted for a bit and said goodbye. If anyone is ever in Oklahoma and needs this kind of service and has a hotel room message me.

Married, early 50s, I’ve had the occasional jerk bud for the past 20 years. Recently met another bud. He is also married. We’ve jerked each other at his office a few times and a few discreet parking lots. When we are together, we talk about having sex with our wives which makes our orgasms stronger.

He messaged me that he was extremely horny, but it was after work and I was home. Jokingly, I told him to swing by my house and I would hop in his car. He took me up on the offer. I told my wife I’d be in the garage while she was in the shower. Before I went into the garage, I squirted a few pumps of lotion into my hand.

I opened the garage door slightly, crawled out underneath and jumped into the passenger seat of his car that was parked a few doors down. You were some very loose basketball shorts that allowed for easy access.

He began to drive down the street very slowly and spent extra time at the stop sign being in a residential area. No one was near us. He pulled over in front of a secluded side street, all the while I have been jerking him. Within a minute and a half of me working on his shaft, he began to orgasm on the steering wheel.

I continued to stroke him a solid minute after that to make sure he was spent. He drove me back to the spot we had met and I crawled back under the garage. The total time I was gone was probably four minutes. I went inside as my wife got out of the shower. I laid her down in the bed and ate her pussy until she had a solid orgasm.

To all the married guys out there. Have any of y’all stepped away in order to take care of your bud.

MWM, 50, love women, consider myself straight. I don’t look at a guy and think, i want to be with him. For me, it’s all about the cock and two guys kicking back, talking dirty, stroking each other, shooting ropes and then casual conversation to be on our way. It’s simple, quick, and a stress reliever.

When I was married to my ex in a sexless marriage, I had both side chicks and jerk buds. The women knew I was married and was ok with it. The sex was great but I was always concerned that one day they would want more and cause a problem. With jerk buds, my norm is that they are married as well and don’t want to change their home life. With most, their sex life was also lacking. There were a few that the sex was good but enjoyed the taboo touch of handling another guys junk.

My ex and I divorced almost fifteen years ago. Once it was official and I could do as I pleased, I found out about Craigslist and realized so many married couples wanted a guy in their mix. The feeling of two bare cocks sliding against each other in a pussy was a feeling I never knew existed. Over the course of being with ten couples, I met Dave and Christie, a late 40s couple. He was laid back and she loved having two men at once.

They became my exclusive and not only did we meet for sex but we went out for dinner and to hang out. I then met my now wife. She is ten years younger, built like a 1940s bombshell and never says no. I no longer see side chicks or couples (the urge is still there) but continue to jerk with the occasional bud. Being 50, I am not into multiple buds. My challenge now is to find another married guy who wants to keep it simple.

As soon as I begin talking to someone, the talk goes to anal, oral, making out. I’ve never been into anything intimate with a guy, including kissing. Not into anal. Not opposed to oral once a trust is established. For all of you married guys in my shoes, how difficult has it been to find a trusted buddy where there is no drama….. yall just meet, act as a relief valve, get off, chat and then make plans for the next time? I’m too old to even consider having a girlfriend nor do I want the baggage that comes along with this. It has been very finding a solid married bud that wants the same.

Early 50s MWM, addicted to milking cocks. Since I’ve been in Oklahoma and told a few of my stories on how much I enjoy spending an hour on edging a cock and making sure they leave with two orgasms, my inbox has been flooded with visiting married men on business who are looking to lay back and for me to give attention to their balls, taint and shaft. Normally the buds I see are middle age, 45 to late 50s.

So I received a message from a 19 year old visiting a college campus for the weekend. He has a girlfriend, straight, but curious about being jerked. Sex is good with his girlfriend but he can go much longer than she can (oh to be 19 again). He told me that she can get him off twice, but gets tired….. that when he has a few hours to himself, he can orgasm ten times in two hours, and that a solid milking is what he needs.

Normally having a bud this young is not my thing, but I was intrigued to see if he was telling the truth about his ability. I met him at his hotel room a few hours after her arrived. I could tell he was very nervous, so we chatted for a bit. He showed me pics of his girlfriend (very cute), sex with her and what he is wanting. Normally, I’m with a milkee about an hour. I wanted him to leave satisfied so I said I would stay until dust was coming out his cock.

When he was ready, he got naked and got comfortable on his bed. His cock was massive. Eight inches and thick. There was no build up stage. When he took his underwear off, he was as hard as a rock. I then drizzled oil everywhere. His head, shaft balls and taint were glistening. So on every one of my milking sessions, I begin by massaging the balls and taint. I had not touched him more than a minute and he begins to shoot ropes. My strategy then changed from edging him to stroking him.

He was gripping the bed while I jerked every last bit of ooze out of him. He apologized for cumming quick and we laughed. From then on, I began stroking him for the next two hours for the purpose of making him cum. I managed to get eleven orgasms out of him when he cried uncle and said he couldn’t go anymore. His cock just laid there lifeless. Fat, cum leaking and lifeless. I got up, washed my hands, chatted a bit and left.