u/heyhey1002

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Looking for advice on my chastity journey/ D/s relationship

Hello everyone. I have been subbing for a Dom from the start of this year. As this is my first time experiencing it, I would like to get some advice regarding how I am feeling right now.

Since the start, chastity has been on/off and my Dom has been slowly training me to get used to a longer duration. I started off with 3 days, and now I am Day 15/20 and while I don't wear a collar 24/7, I do have to wear one whenever I go to his apartment. However, I started feeling very lonely on this chastity journey as I get to see my Dom and have a play session only once every other week. During the days that I don't see him, we hardly chat, besides me sending him a picture of my cage and my Dom just giving a like or a "well done" and somehow the conversation stopped there. One thing that makes me really sad is that I asked if he would be free on Day 20, which is the day I am supposed to be released, but he said he will not be in the city, period. He didnt really offer any alternatives. (I will get so horny if he suggests to extend it further until he comes back) I was really hoping that he would be more involved in this journey, maybe start to tease me a little more etc. Thus, I would like to ask these question(s) : am I being too needy? Is this my 2 weeks chastised brain chemistry screwing with me? Should I/How should I approach in handling this?

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u/heyhey1002 — 3 days ago